Personally, I think God does 'love' us in a different way that what our limited, modern, democratically-washed minds can comprehend (Deuteronomy 29:29). And there are some things we don't understand about the reality God has created and in which we live, so we evaluate God by those things we think we do understand about our world. Unfortunately, we get it wrong and then we show up on a modern blog forum to gripe about how God has failed us and how we think He has been morally inconsistent...according to our modern, democratically washed assumption about what we think social reality should be.
What is most funny to me is that in order to REALLY dis God on a moral level, we have to establish perfectly well the modern, secular notions of morality. The catch is that no one is actually establishing secular morality, nor can they. It just becomes assumed that it has already been established. But griping about God is free, so it happens anyway, a lot.
Peace,
2PhiloVoid