Well, the woman in the supermarket hasn't written for comments or opinions, so I will comment on your behavior.
I think that your reaction was way out of line. The woman's comments did not jeopardize the safety of your children. In fact, she spoke out of concern for your children. She may have been nosey, or overreacting or butting her nose in where it was not wanted... but I'm afraid that I cannot see your reaction as anything but rude.
You could have pointed out that your husband was right there. You could have thanked her and gone about your business. You could have ignored her. But you attacked her, in fact, you initiated attacking. Misguided though she may have been, she did not verbally assult you, which is what you did to her.
Imagine her showing up in your church next Sunday... Would you step up and say, "Hi! I think we met in the store last week." Unkilely, becasue I think at the core, you would be embarassed by your actions.
We all have done things like this at one time or another. Forgive yourself, ask God to forgive you and go on with life and good luck withyour project at home.
I think that your reaction was way out of line. The woman's comments did not jeopardize the safety of your children. In fact, she spoke out of concern for your children. She may have been nosey, or overreacting or butting her nose in where it was not wanted... but I'm afraid that I cannot see your reaction as anything but rude.
You could have pointed out that your husband was right there. You could have thanked her and gone about your business. You could have ignored her. But you attacked her, in fact, you initiated attacking. Misguided though she may have been, she did not verbally assult you, which is what you did to her.
Imagine her showing up in your church next Sunday... Would you step up and say, "Hi! I think we met in the store last week." Unkilely, becasue I think at the core, you would be embarassed by your actions.
We all have done things like this at one time or another. Forgive yourself, ask God to forgive you and go on with life and good luck withyour project at home.
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