I'm still struggling to see how this is what you first meant when you said that the author is protecting "her" as if she were Dulcinea, who is actually making her own choices. I asked if you meant Miley or women in general.....and this is your response?
Yes it is my response. Let me try again though. I think that Miley's actions are taken to be representative of women who behave in an overtly sexual manner outside of a private intimate relationship.
Also......what *else* do you believe needs to be said to Miley (that's what is seems like you're suggesting when you are disappointed the author "finds it acceptable that she has basically been told to essentially have more self respect".)? I don't (FTR) believe the author believes that Miley (specifically) needs to be "told" anything.....that it's more about our own children and what *they* should be taught. Miley is out of our jurisdiction.....and, most likely, doesn't have the ears to hear us (IOW.....she's NOT interested).
See above--Miley's example is taken to be representative, not literal.
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All I saw that you said was that it was lopsided. I never saw any direct ways the conversation could be more effective (well......you said something more "practical") Isn't it practical to suggest that we speak to our boys about how their value comes from being respected and being loved as they respect and love the people who matter to them?[/quote]
I didn't actually see that the remarks made to young women (the theoretical or actual daughters in the other blog entries and articles) were any more effective, actually.
For example imagine being an adolescent reading the pastor's views or the mothers' views--what is actually being said?
1. To what extent should young women not imitate Miley Cyrus?
2. How should young men respond to women they find overtly sexually attractive?
3. If people should demonstrate mutual respect--what does that actually look like? Should young men take overtly aggressive sexual behaviour from women to be disrespect for themselves?
There are, in my opinion, many more questions that could be asked or issues surrounding what was said that could be discussed.