It seems like for everyone else things just fall into place. For me things just don’t work out I had to make multiple career changes because I made stupid decisions or didn’t do my research. Now I’m 28 and nowhere near ready to commit.
Yet there’s so much pressure to get married because the good Christian girls get snatched up young and society hates age gap relationships more than 5 .years. but I don’t Make a lot of money and most women want a man who can provide.
I’m working hard to find a higher paying job and learn new skills, but nobody gives a [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] about potential, they just care about where you are now and I’m afraid that by the time I get to that place it will be too late. Also on top of that I need to have big muscles and be extremely charismatic if I want one of those beautiful Christian girls.
How can I get over this pressure to settle down ? I would do anything to be ready now or earlier like everyone else and not be behind.
Yet there’s so much pressure to get married because the good Christian girls get snatched up young and society hates age gap relationships more than 5 .years. but I don’t Make a lot of money and most women want a man who can provide.
I’m working hard to find a higher paying job and learn new skills, but nobody gives a [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] about potential, they just care about where you are now and I’m afraid that by the time I get to that place it will be too late. Also on top of that I need to have big muscles and be extremely charismatic if I want one of those beautiful Christian girls.
How can I get over this pressure to settle down ? I would do anything to be ready now or earlier like everyone else and not be behind.