Obviously a personal emotional reaction can't be proven, disproven, or used as a substantial reason for someone else. I merely said how IVF made me feel--that is all.ebia said:Proof by yuch factor?
Are you implying that God wants everyone to have children? Scripture please...Adopting does not fulfill the God given, biblically celebrated, need that most people
Aha... I think you just said a heck of a lot more than you anticipated. Women in particular... that basically states what most of us have known all along anyway--that there are differences in gender socialization that cause females to brought up with procreation as a centrally defining life event much more so than men. This is particularly a problem in the church, where girls are invariably explicitly taught either that motherhood is an absolute norm and necessity (i.e. Roman Catholicism, Eastern Orthodoxy, Mormonism, some branches of Lutheranism, and many small "quiver-full" Protestant groups) or is the general norm and aspiration for womankind (most evangelical denominations).women in particular
I really, really think that the atheists/agnostics/Pagans among us have a far healthier mentality on reproduction, as a general rule, than do most believers. Ebia, did you follow at all the discussion started by 4 Jacks in the Marriage Ministry forum?
I conceded long ago that IVF, if done with these rules in mind, may not be necessarily morally objectionable. Yes, there are some people who act with these scruples. However, the majority of fertility docs and prospective IVF parents do not, and there are no laws requiring that they do so. If such regulations were proposed, they would undoubtedly quickly be shot down either through the lobbying efforts of reproductive-rights/pro-choice activists or activist judges. This is why we have horror stories in the news such as the McCaughey septuplets--whose parents, might I add, profess to be devout Christians (of the quiver-full variety, needless to say).A few points of information based on how IVF is done here - things may be different in the US, but IVF in principle should be addressed to best practice:
1. Excessive embryo production is limited as far as possible. The controls here are such as to minimise as far as possible the number of embryos produced and not eventually implanted - embryos are not produced willy-nilly. As others have pointed out, the chance of an IVF embryo growing into a baby are now much higher than an embryo produced "naturally".
2. Now that the success rate of IVF is so high, no more than two embryos are ever implanted at a time. If there is reason to be concerned about the mother's ability to carry twins to term, only one embryo is implanted at a time.
3. Many people undergoing IVF are adamant that (as far as humanly possible) all of their embryos should be given a chance either with the original mother or via donation. There is no need for large numbers (or even any) embryos to be destroyed.
If you have an objection to the way IVF is carried out here or in the US, then address your arguments to getting it changed to best practice. Any disagreement on principle needs to be address to best practice.
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