The word "abuse" is a politically correct term for the last century or so.(used for worldly and fleshly reasons, INSTEAD of what is Scriptural.)
It has nothing at all to do with Scripture, i.e. it is NOT helpful nor useful nor honest! as the world uses it.
while Godly Instructions Are Helpful,
"Rebuking" cleansing, refining, correcting, clarifying,
even when criticism from the ungodly, can be a lesson ,
as with King David -
not to kill the loud curser across the river , no, but "let him be" and "God has sent him"
from 2 Samuel 16
5 When King David arrived at Bahurim, one of Saul's relatives, Shimei son of Gera, came out to meet him, cursing him as he came. 6 Shimei started throwing stones at David and his officials, even though David was surrounded by his men and his bodyguards. 7 Shimei cursed him and said, “Get out! Get out! Murderer! Criminal! 8 You took Saul's kingdom, and now the Lord is punishing you for murdering so many of Saul's family. The Lord has given the kingdom to your son Absalom, and you are ruined, you murderer!”
9 Abishai, whose mother was Zeruiah, said to the king, “Your Majesty, why do you let this dog curse you? Let me go over there and cut off his head!”
10 “This is none of your business,” the king said to Abishai and his brother Joab.
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If he curses me because the Lord told him to, who has the right to ask why he does it?” 11
And David said to Abishai and to all his officials, “
My own son is trying to kill me; so why should you be surprised at this Benjaminite?
The Lord told him to curse; so leave him alone and let him do it. 12 Perhaps the Lord will notice my miseryg]">[
g] and give me some blessings to take the place of his curse.” 13 So David and his men continued along the road.
Shimei kept up with them, walking on the hillside; he was cursing and throwing stones and dirt at them as he went. 14 The king and all his men were worn out when they reached the Jordan,h]">[
h] and there they rested.
