Hi there. So uh... as the title says, I'm struggling with making friends in person. I live somewhere near post falls, ID, and I guess im looking for a club with like minded people. I'm a bit socially awkward and I haven't had any irl friends in a while so... sorry in advance.
But outside from that, what are helpful pieces of advice for finding friends, and maybe even a date with someone?
Well, looking into the future, when it's good to go out again with others, there are many tips, but one of the best is to do things you enjoy with other people. Often one can find some people in one's church that like various activities you like yourself, such as movies, music, and more. Some examples (there are thousands of activities), just a few, are day hiking, fire circles, book clubs, astronomy outings (or clubs), music societies, music circles (where you participate or take turns performing), church choirs, movie outings, Bible reading circles (where you take turns reading aloud, and discuss), Karaoke, cooking classes, and perhaps so many other things, like woodworking, discussion groups (centered around endless possible topics), and so on. So, you think about some things you really like to do, and find others that like to do that, or even join a group that does that thing, where you tend to meet people that like that same activity. For now, since we are all to stay in, you might find a forum where people that like that activity make posts, and ask about local groups in your area. This is one key thing to finding friends: to enjoy things together. Of course, once churches start back, one can enjoy the coffee and treats that often happen after services, but that could be a month or more away in the future, depending on your area.