A part of me doesn’t like to discuss about this but I need advice on the matter..
I have this girl I grew up with since I was 11 we met in a neighborhood when we were young and grew up together and she was always there for me, this was before Jesus came into my life..
We grew up together and had fights and arguments in our relationship but we loved each other and grew together and kept being there for each other and we had a child when I was about 18.. anyways to come to the point.. is it ok for me to be with her even though she’s not Christian?
I mean we have a history together growing up together and I always loved her but before Jesus came into my life I grew corrupt.. and we have a child together.. we were not married and it does feel like a part of me died in a way because she was always there and now that I’m seeking God or to follow him.. I do know the scriptures about relationship and being single but also found comfort that it is ok also to have a wife..
is it ok to be with her.. or choose her for a wife..
I mean I would like to be a family with her and be there
But a part of me also feels it may lead me away from God or that it may not be right..
It’s just she’s been such a part of my life growing up and it kinda feels like I lost a part of who i am...though I know my identity in Christ etc etc.
advice, support, thoughts....anyone?
I have this girl I grew up with since I was 11 we met in a neighborhood when we were young and grew up together and she was always there for me, this was before Jesus came into my life..
We grew up together and had fights and arguments in our relationship but we loved each other and grew together and kept being there for each other and we had a child when I was about 18.. anyways to come to the point.. is it ok for me to be with her even though she’s not Christian?
I mean we have a history together growing up together and I always loved her but before Jesus came into my life I grew corrupt.. and we have a child together.. we were not married and it does feel like a part of me died in a way because she was always there and now that I’m seeking God or to follow him.. I do know the scriptures about relationship and being single but also found comfort that it is ok also to have a wife..
is it ok to be with her.. or choose her for a wife..
I mean I would like to be a family with her and be there
But a part of me also feels it may lead me away from God or that it may not be right..
It’s just she’s been such a part of my life growing up and it kinda feels like I lost a part of who i am...though I know my identity in Christ etc etc.
advice, support, thoughts....anyone?