Jana Jiráková;55708748 said:
Can someone from the OC christians explain to me (or send some link ??) the belief that Maria was virgin during and after the birth of Jesus Christ and forever. Do the OC christians believe that Maria is "forever virgin" and why ? She later had children with her husband Joseph - is this based only on the state of her soul (she is a virgin forever as a state of soul not of her body ???) Or did I misunderstood something ?
Please - I absolutely do not want to offend anybody´s belief !!!!! and hope these questions aren´t rude in any way. I honor Maria. I just don´t quite understand and honestly hope to get answers as a christian seeker who "seeks" the true church and want to know the teachings. Thank you.
Orthodox Christians believe Mary was virgin throughout her whole life. Our icons of her usually have three stars on her forehead and shoulders (although sometimes a shoulder star is obscured by Christ sitting on her lap). The stars symbolize that she was virgin before, during, and after the birth of her son.
The Gospels name other children in Jesus's family, but before the Reformation, it was generally held that they were either Joseph's children from a previous marriage or that they were cousins adopted into the family. They would have been known as Jesus's brothers and sisters in either case because the language did not differentiate between brothers and step-brothers and so forth. It was only very late in Christian history that anyone thought that the "brothers and sisters" must mean that they were Mary's biological children. Even the early Protestant reformers openly mocked people who thought Mary had other biological children.
Please understand, though, that the term "immaculate conception" does not refer to Mary's virginal conception of Christ. It's actually a Roman Catholic teaching that Mary herself was conceived free from "original sin," when her own mother, St. Anna, conceived her. Orthodox Christians completely reject the idea of the "immaculate conception" as a late doctrinal invention from a group long separated from the Church.
You bring up virginity as a state of soul as well. Please bear with me, because this will take some explaining.
Orthodox Christians believe that the whole world became "fallen" due to Adam and Eve's introduction of sin through the Fall, and the continual sins of humankind. This is why we get sick, we suffer, and we die. It doesn't mean that when something bad happens, we must have sinned and deserved it somehow - it just means that the presence of sin, and our separation from God, has introduced suffering into our world.
Christ came to transform all of this. By becoming incarnate and experiencing all of our earthly, human pain, and taking even death itself to Himself, He transformed it into something salvific, something that could lead us to God. We see this in the Gospels when Christ healed the man born blind, others asked who committed the sin to make him this way. Christ responded that no one's particular sin made this man to be born blind: the man was born blind so that the power of God would be manifest through him.
While the Orthodox Church holds that Mary was definitely a virgin in the sense of never having sex, and that her conception of Christ was a miracle, the Church also holds that Mary was an exceptionally good and faithful woman, so much so that she never elected to sin her whole life.
She is recorded to have followed Him (even if occasionally perplexed) during His ministry, and faithfully served the new Church after Christ's ascension, awaiting Pentecost with the apostles in the upper room, even though the Holy Spirit had already come upon her at Christ's conception. When she arrived at Elizabeth's house shortly after the Annunciation, Mary proclaimed that all generations would call her blessed. Later, Christ carefully points out that it's not merely the fact that she was his mother (in that she gave birth to Him and suckled Him), but that she heard the word of God and kept it, that makes her blessed (along with anyone else who also hears the word of God and keeps it). Her profound obedience and faithfulness to God, however, is shown in her choosing to bear Christ. The bearing itself is not the point as much as her choice to do so, at great risk to herself and not much benefit in accordance to worldly values.
This eliminates a lot of modern, heretical ideas that Mary was "elected" to be Christ's mother (and thus had no choice), or that Christ could have come out of a rock or floated down from heaven with no human involvement. Mary consented to conceive and bear God into the world, happy to be part of the fulfillment of the will of God. (This is why we call her "Theotokos", which means, "Birthgiver of God", underscoring not so much something about her but the fact that Christ is truly God.) By her consent to be Christ's mother, she offered to God her fallen humanity ("the low estate of His handmaiden") to be renewed and saved.
As a human being just like all others, Mary experienced the fallenness of the world through the presence of sin, and was subject to death herself, which we commemorate as her Dormition ("falling asleep"). However, she was exceptionally strong in resisting the temptation to sin, and always directed people towards her Son.