Hi. I'm actually not sure if this thread should be in this section, and for that I'm sorry, but please understand that I am desperate for help..
I have been going to church all of my life, but realized just recently that I was not truly saved to begin with -- right now, I'm not even sure I can call myself a "Christian" to post this in this section. I feel like i am in a very serious spiritual struggle in my life right now. I have been reading Scripture addressing how few little people will enter the narrow gate of heaven and how God will not hear prayers from certain people. After reflecting on this, these ideas in the Bible made me realize how weak my faith is -- that i may actually have no faith at all.
I've searched in-depth to see what people that God hears prayers from, and I have found out that it is the humble people that have confessed and repented their sins. I have always looked over those verses of confessing/repenting sins without much thought, but for some reason (I'm beginning to think it the work of the Holy Spirit) I have noticed the vast extent of the sins in my daily life. Things that I have done/been doing that I thought were harmless are now vividly evil to me.
I have been on an international vacation trip for about 2 months now, and I think I would have to call this trip a "retreat." I have found a very passionate and moving church where I am right now, and up until now, I thought that God had truly changed me through this church, and that I was "re-saved" after realizing that I was not saved for so many years. I cried openly and felt genuinely sorry for the sins that had been taking hold of my life for so many years, but today, I realized again that I am not saved. Those tears... may have been for show - no, they were certainly not for sure. I truly repented for my sins - but only for the sins that were obviously evil. I'm not too sure myself -- I'm not too sure of anything these days. I have been sitting in front of my computer for hours trying to see my true intentions with regard to God. I have realized the things that I do back at home - watching television, playing video games, and wasting time in general - is much worse than I had thought at first.
I do not want to really discuss the "ethics" of gaming or television or anything of that sort. I deeply understand now that anything that is neither harmful or harmless to a person's spiritual walk with God is a waste of time. I mean, why watch TV (regardless or not if the program you watch is bad) when you could be reading Scripture? This question has been... "haunting" me, if you will, ever since it rose in my mind.
Nothing in this world matters other than doing the will of God, am I right? That would mean that everything else is a waste of God's time given to His people, and therefore, must be a sin! Now I look at my lifestyle back at home - how I waste days in entertainment, work, school, etc - when I should be using ALL of that time to do the will of God!
There's a huge problem, however - the place that I am stuck. I know that the things of this world are evil. I know that the things that I do on a daily basis (playing games and watching TV) are evil and a waste of time. Right now, while I'm away from my home overseas, I am resisting to do both of these things. That would be fine, but like I said, I feel like I'm on a retreat. I am almost completely sure that when I return home, I will easily fall into my old lifestyle and watch TV and play games.
And so, I am stuck - right now. After I post this entry, I will pretty much be doing nothing. Am I afraid? I don't know. I know God does not hear me - not right now. I don't belong in the category of "the people that He can hear." I have realized that since I don't have a strong hate for the evil things that I do so easily back at home, I must not love God, for as Jesus said in the gospel: you cannot love one and love the other. If you hate one, you will love the other, and vice-versa. After realizing that I don't hate the things of this world, it'd be expected that I would just live a life of sin and reject the whole idea of Christianity - but that's not what's happening.
I can't indulge myself in the evil things I have done daily while knowing that they are evil and "abominations" to the eyes of God. Like I said, I'm stuck. I'm stuck in between enjoying evil in this world as entertainment, and giving every second of my life in doing the will of God (in my mind, this means never to stop reading the Bible). I cannot do either! I can't choose! I don't want to do something when I know that it is evil - something that God hates... but I also don't think I can read the Bible every single second of my life and give up the things that I have become a part of my daily life so completely and easily! So, for now... I am doing nothing. I don't know - that probably is evil, too, but I just... can't. I'm confused and helpless. I need help. Please - someone. God cannot hear me right now, so I need someone that God hears to help me. Or if that is too obscure, I at least am looking for the answer to the question: Since a waste of time not doing God's will is a sin, shouldn't Christians be reading Scripture, doing missions, evangelizing, etc every second of their lives? Shouldn't every Christian become a pastor, then? A person that completely lives and works for God? If that's true, how can I do that...
Please help me. I will be waiting. Thank you for taking your time. I hope that God will be speaking through you to me.
I have been going to church all of my life, but realized just recently that I was not truly saved to begin with -- right now, I'm not even sure I can call myself a "Christian" to post this in this section. I feel like i am in a very serious spiritual struggle in my life right now. I have been reading Scripture addressing how few little people will enter the narrow gate of heaven and how God will not hear prayers from certain people. After reflecting on this, these ideas in the Bible made me realize how weak my faith is -- that i may actually have no faith at all.
I've searched in-depth to see what people that God hears prayers from, and I have found out that it is the humble people that have confessed and repented their sins. I have always looked over those verses of confessing/repenting sins without much thought, but for some reason (I'm beginning to think it the work of the Holy Spirit) I have noticed the vast extent of the sins in my daily life. Things that I have done/been doing that I thought were harmless are now vividly evil to me.
I have been on an international vacation trip for about 2 months now, and I think I would have to call this trip a "retreat." I have found a very passionate and moving church where I am right now, and up until now, I thought that God had truly changed me through this church, and that I was "re-saved" after realizing that I was not saved for so many years. I cried openly and felt genuinely sorry for the sins that had been taking hold of my life for so many years, but today, I realized again that I am not saved. Those tears... may have been for show - no, they were certainly not for sure. I truly repented for my sins - but only for the sins that were obviously evil. I'm not too sure myself -- I'm not too sure of anything these days. I have been sitting in front of my computer for hours trying to see my true intentions with regard to God. I have realized the things that I do back at home - watching television, playing video games, and wasting time in general - is much worse than I had thought at first.
I do not want to really discuss the "ethics" of gaming or television or anything of that sort. I deeply understand now that anything that is neither harmful or harmless to a person's spiritual walk with God is a waste of time. I mean, why watch TV (regardless or not if the program you watch is bad) when you could be reading Scripture? This question has been... "haunting" me, if you will, ever since it rose in my mind.
Nothing in this world matters other than doing the will of God, am I right? That would mean that everything else is a waste of God's time given to His people, and therefore, must be a sin! Now I look at my lifestyle back at home - how I waste days in entertainment, work, school, etc - when I should be using ALL of that time to do the will of God!
There's a huge problem, however - the place that I am stuck. I know that the things of this world are evil. I know that the things that I do on a daily basis (playing games and watching TV) are evil and a waste of time. Right now, while I'm away from my home overseas, I am resisting to do both of these things. That would be fine, but like I said, I feel like I'm on a retreat. I am almost completely sure that when I return home, I will easily fall into my old lifestyle and watch TV and play games.
And so, I am stuck - right now. After I post this entry, I will pretty much be doing nothing. Am I afraid? I don't know. I know God does not hear me - not right now. I don't belong in the category of "the people that He can hear." I have realized that since I don't have a strong hate for the evil things that I do so easily back at home, I must not love God, for as Jesus said in the gospel: you cannot love one and love the other. If you hate one, you will love the other, and vice-versa. After realizing that I don't hate the things of this world, it'd be expected that I would just live a life of sin and reject the whole idea of Christianity - but that's not what's happening.
I can't indulge myself in the evil things I have done daily while knowing that they are evil and "abominations" to the eyes of God. Like I said, I'm stuck. I'm stuck in between enjoying evil in this world as entertainment, and giving every second of my life in doing the will of God (in my mind, this means never to stop reading the Bible). I cannot do either! I can't choose! I don't want to do something when I know that it is evil - something that God hates... but I also don't think I can read the Bible every single second of my life and give up the things that I have become a part of my daily life so completely and easily! So, for now... I am doing nothing. I don't know - that probably is evil, too, but I just... can't. I'm confused and helpless. I need help. Please - someone. God cannot hear me right now, so I need someone that God hears to help me. Or if that is too obscure, I at least am looking for the answer to the question: Since a waste of time not doing God's will is a sin, shouldn't Christians be reading Scripture, doing missions, evangelizing, etc every second of their lives? Shouldn't every Christian become a pastor, then? A person that completely lives and works for God? If that's true, how can I do that...
Please help me. I will be waiting. Thank you for taking your time. I hope that God will be speaking through you to me.