I'm really upset..

[SimplyUnique]

Ok..so my ex-bf just told me he made out with this gothic girl...yet when i asked if they were dating he said "i dunno" my friend talked to him and he said they made out for an hour at her house. then she asked him if the girl and him were going to have sex, he said "i dont know, she wants to, i guess we'll know when it happens" please pray that i will really be able to move on from this, and pray for him, he needs it the most...his name is alex btw and he's also like a brother/best friend to me

 

[chanis]

you just need to move and let it go...

 

[SimplyUnique]

i'm trying but its going to take some time

 

[HeltonPrecision]

I'm not one to be giving anyone advice on relationships but, it sounds like you don't need to be around that type of guy anyways He'll just end up getting you in trouble !

 

[SimplyUnique]

i guess so...he's moved anyways so yeah

 

[JPPT1974]

I'm not one to be giving anyone advice on relationships but, it sounds like you don't need to be around that type of guy anyways He'll just end up getting you in trouble !

I know what you mean. As you don't want either guy or girl to get you in trouble.

 

[Linus]

Praying for you and your situation beloved!

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

you just need to move and let it go...

True.

DD, Sounds to me like this guy's just trying to spark a reaction out of you.

It's working though, because you're letting it get to you.

 

[reverie_maiden]

Praying for the both of you...

 

[Iggster]

True. DD, Sounds to me like this guy's just trying to spark a reaction out of you. It's working though, because you're letting it get to you.

Agreed. If he even cares for you, he wouldn't hurt you the way he's hurting you now. It's just mind games to him. Now you know why you aren't with him.

 

[Blank123]

unfortunately I think these guys are right, this boy is trying to hurt you, and it sucks I know. Some people are like that it makes them feel powerful or something I guess. My advice for you is to put some distance between yourself and this guy at least until you have healed from this breakup.

I will pray for you

 

[OceanAngel]

I'm sorry to hear this, I can only echo what has been already said.

I'll pray for you

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

Agreed. If he even cares for you, he wouldn't hurt you the way he's hurting you now. It's just mind games to him. Now you know why you aren't with him.

Or, keep in mind that even if he DOES care for you, he cares about himself more.

Or he's just REALLY immature.

Either way, Iggsters right, you know why you're not with him.

 

[JPPT1974]

unfortunately I think these guys are right, this boy is trying to hurt you, and it sucks I know. Some people are like that it makes them feel powerful or something I guess. My advice for you is to put some distance between yourself and this guy at least until you have healed from this breakup.

I will pray for you

Don't let this guy hurt you. Because you deserve much better. And that boy will do this to others if you know what I mean. Break up with him and find somebody that will treat you the way you need to be treated.