Hi,
I do nat have any diagnoses like depression or anything similar. Though, how would I knoe if I never went to a psycologist?...
I live in a coutry where having any mental health issues is shameful. From the times of Soviet Union everything that would look wrong was covered, not treated. It is not common to go to a psycologist or consider any kind of therapy. And I do not even know where to go.
Also I feel ashamed that I have had suisidal thought even though I am a christian. You know how they say, "You're a christian, you know God loves you, how can you not want to live" or even "You gave your life to Jesus, now you have no right to take it. If you kill yourself you'll burn on hell."
But what if it feels like hell in here? I sometimes feel like I'm burning alive.
Well, do not worry, I am not thinking about hurting myself. I lost two friends to suicide and I know how awful that feels. I just can't put my family and friends through this.
But the question is, how do I live now? There are some physical health issues that are on my way to normal life. But noone sees how hard it is for me. The sing is, I am cross-eyed. My friends and family say they got used to it, and it is not that bad. Though, for be it has been a barrier when talking to people... and even before that. It is said that impression is made from the first three seconds of seeing a person. And what people thing when they see me? I've been in very acward situations where a person I was talking to could not understand where am I looking at and kept looking over her shoulder as if someone was behind her and I was looking there... And when I worked and the fairs, when people would approach me willing to bye something and both would start talking to me beacuse each thought I was looking at him... It even sounds redicilous to say that I was looking at both of them. Well, not intentionally. But I was. And I couldn't explain.
The worst thing is when I must talk to people, especially to men, especially to the guy I like... You know how they show in all those romantic movies (well, in life people do that too) when people look each other in the eyes and they do not even have to talk. You know how that feels to know you never get to feel that feeling, that kind of connection?
It is too hard to explain what it means to me, and ow I feel. And I'm not even sure why I did that. That is why I went to a place where noone knows me. So that if I regret I told you everything I can forget this ever happened, because I will never have to see you. At least one good thing about virtual life...
I do nat have any diagnoses like depression or anything similar. Though, how would I knoe if I never went to a psycologist?...
I live in a coutry where having any mental health issues is shameful. From the times of Soviet Union everything that would look wrong was covered, not treated. It is not common to go to a psycologist or consider any kind of therapy. And I do not even know where to go.
Also I feel ashamed that I have had suisidal thought even though I am a christian. You know how they say, "You're a christian, you know God loves you, how can you not want to live" or even "You gave your life to Jesus, now you have no right to take it. If you kill yourself you'll burn on hell."
But what if it feels like hell in here? I sometimes feel like I'm burning alive.
Well, do not worry, I am not thinking about hurting myself. I lost two friends to suicide and I know how awful that feels. I just can't put my family and friends through this.
But the question is, how do I live now? There are some physical health issues that are on my way to normal life. But noone sees how hard it is for me. The sing is, I am cross-eyed. My friends and family say they got used to it, and it is not that bad. Though, for be it has been a barrier when talking to people... and even before that. It is said that impression is made from the first three seconds of seeing a person. And what people thing when they see me? I've been in very acward situations where a person I was talking to could not understand where am I looking at and kept looking over her shoulder as if someone was behind her and I was looking there... And when I worked and the fairs, when people would approach me willing to bye something and both would start talking to me beacuse each thought I was looking at him... It even sounds redicilous to say that I was looking at both of them. Well, not intentionally. But I was. And I couldn't explain.
The worst thing is when I must talk to people, especially to men, especially to the guy I like... You know how they show in all those romantic movies (well, in life people do that too) when people look each other in the eyes and they do not even have to talk. You know how that feels to know you never get to feel that feeling, that kind of connection?
It is too hard to explain what it means to me, and ow I feel. And I'm not even sure why I did that. That is why I went to a place where noone knows me. So that if I regret I told you everything I can forget this ever happened, because I will never have to see you. At least one good thing about virtual life...