I'm 23 years old. The past 4 years I've lost family because I was shunned. I converted to Christianity and the church I went to didn't want me to come anymore because they didn't like me and father of my kids together. His father and his brother don't like me won't even speak to me even when I reach out to them and I still really love my kids father. He's not a bad guy but he doesn't want to work it out and he's seeing someone else. Me and him were still very emotionally involved but because before we came to church our relationship was so bad he doesn't want to try again. It hurts so bad because I really love him and I wanted to make it work but he wants to be with this other girl and I feel like an utter reject. There's a lot more to the story but I don't want to hear about God has a better someone because that really just hurts and makes me even more upset. No one seems to get it. I don't want to be with someone I don't want to watch him be with someone else raise a family with someone else and share our kids with someone else. I've always had poor self worthbut now I just want hurt myself because I feel like crap, and I just feel like I'm never enough and I can never understand my worth with God. I hate myself because I'm never enough. I don't know what to do but in drowning in self loathing and started cutting myself again. I just wanted God to fix our family.