For the past 23 years I have been married to a man who has always insisted that the family attend a local church together as a family. Last weekend, out of the blue, he announced that he would no longer be attending church with the rest of the family. I asked "why?" He says....."it's between God and me!"
We got into a bit of a hassle over it yesterday. I was feeling angry, betrayed, feel like I am being rejected by him. I feel this massive amount of emotions building up in me and I don't know what to do with it. If it hadn't been such a big deal all these years it would have had much less impact on me. But he always made it a priority.
Also, I think that he is hurting and somewhat depressed. His way of coping is to shut everyone out rather than to reach out to his fellow brothers and sisters in the Lord and let them help him. He always tries to put on this facade that everything is fine.
How could it be? We have been married almost 23 years. We are having serious marital problems. I am already in counseling.....but I don't know if he will go. Also we have 2 kids (well..there are not kids..they're 19 and 21) anyways they have schizophrenia. Everything is not "fine". But I trust that God will give me the strength and truth I need each day.
Thanks for listening. Does Anyone have any suggestions?
Sweetngentle
We got into a bit of a hassle over it yesterday. I was feeling angry, betrayed, feel like I am being rejected by him. I feel this massive amount of emotions building up in me and I don't know what to do with it. If it hadn't been such a big deal all these years it would have had much less impact on me. But he always made it a priority.
Also, I think that he is hurting and somewhat depressed. His way of coping is to shut everyone out rather than to reach out to his fellow brothers and sisters in the Lord and let them help him. He always tries to put on this facade that everything is fine.
How could it be? We have been married almost 23 years. We are having serious marital problems. I am already in counseling.....but I don't know if he will go. Also we have 2 kids (well..there are not kids..they're 19 and 21) anyways they have schizophrenia. Everything is not "fine". But I trust that God will give me the strength and truth I need each day.
Thanks for listening. Does Anyone have any suggestions?
Sweetngentle