With all due respect. You chose to live and sleep with someone. You got pregnant. You now have a child.
I'm glad you have a child; I'm glad you allowed this kid to come into the world. Now, they need you. They need their mom. I think they also need their dad, and I hope that the father is in the picture, and is also a Christian, and will marry you, and be a great husband, and dad. These things are not easy, but possible.
Children change everything. They do. Your life is not over; it belongs to God, and to your child, and your child belongs to you, too. I truly hope that you will begin to take Christian commandments about sexuality, marriage, and family life seriously, Eyes. It's not too late, Christ loves you, and wants to see you live your life and be a wife and a mom in a way that pulls you closer to Him. But you need to put Him first, stop shoving Scriptural warnings and commandments into a corner when it comes down to sex and marriage, and take steps to meet God half way on this.
He loves you. He loves your precious little kid. He loves the kid's father, too. He loves all of you, and wants to pull all three of you closer to Him. I do believe that when you take the time out to have a talk with Christ about this guy, about marriage, and about following Him, and that when you finally marry this hopefully Christian guy you've been with for five years, many, many things will fall into place for you. I say this in love, Eyes.
Your life is not over. I hope you can talk to a pastor or Christian counselor, talk to God, talk to the child's father about marriage and faith, and begin to walk in ways that will help you, your child, and your future, even if you don't get to do everything you once thought you would. Sometimes God has much better plans for us, if we listen to Him, and let Him help us, and let Him love us. His way.
I'm glad you have a child; I'm glad you allowed this kid to come into the world. Now, they need you. They need their mom. I think they also need their dad, and I hope that the father is in the picture, and is also a Christian, and will marry you, and be a great husband, and dad. These things are not easy, but possible.
Children change everything. They do. Your life is not over; it belongs to God, and to your child, and your child belongs to you, too. I truly hope that you will begin to take Christian commandments about sexuality, marriage, and family life seriously, Eyes. It's not too late, Christ loves you, and wants to see you live your life and be a wife and a mom in a way that pulls you closer to Him. But you need to put Him first, stop shoving Scriptural warnings and commandments into a corner when it comes down to sex and marriage, and take steps to meet God half way on this.
He loves you. He loves your precious little kid. He loves the kid's father, too. He loves all of you, and wants to pull all three of you closer to Him. I do believe that when you take the time out to have a talk with Christ about this guy, about marriage, and about following Him, and that when you finally marry this hopefully Christian guy you've been with for five years, many, many things will fall into place for you. I say this in love, Eyes.
Your life is not over. I hope you can talk to a pastor or Christian counselor, talk to God, talk to the child's father about marriage and faith, and begin to walk in ways that will help you, your child, and your future, even if you don't get to do everything you once thought you would. Sometimes God has much better plans for us, if we listen to Him, and let Him help us, and let Him love us. His way.
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