In the unlikely event of there being an afterlife what will it be like? Would we be the same people we are here on earth or totally different? If someone passes into the afterlife as a child, will they stay as such, not growing into an adult? If a person has a disability or illness will they continue to suffer from it?
What do others think?
I've mentioned this ad infinitum, but the night my own father died, he appeared in my room. That was on the 11th January 1979, and I still remember most of our conversation word for word over 40 years later. It stared with "someone" shaking me on the back, I rolled over in bed, and to my shock he started to materialise near the door. It went on from there.
No doubt you won't believe me, but I don't care. I know what I saw.
In his case it was not a happy outcome. After the conversation had ended, he gave this absolutely terrifying scream and then just disappeared. It was obvious something was coming for him and that was what horrified him so much.
There's an afterlife
and there's a judgement. Rest assured.
When I was talking to my father, I could either focus on him, or see through him. I suppose you might say he was "ghostly". I had a long chipboard bookcase and the middle shelf sagged (buying too many books has long been a bad habit of mine). I can still remember being able to focus on the bookcase right behind him if I wanted to.
However I can't tell you much about the long-term afterlife. For those condemned to Hell, I think they become quite hideous, creeping crawling horrors we would not hope to meet in our worst nightmares, to quote CS Lewis (more or less). Something scared the hell out of my father, although I couldn't see it. During the whole episode I was not allowed to see anything but him, although I was able to see his various reactions to whatever
he could see.
I believe in Purgatory, but I'm not sure how much of a "body" the residents have. They may start in purely spiritual, "ghostly" form and gradually take on more and more of a manifest appearance as they draw nearer to heaven and their ultimate goal, the beatific vision. For an imaginative take on this transition, read CS Lewis's "The Great Divorce".
For those who make it to heaven, if they're going to have "bodies" then it is obvious they're going to be independent of our earth bound bodies, which have rotted in the grave, disintegrated in the sea, gone up in smoke in a crematorium, vaporised in a nuclear explosion, blown to bits in a war etc.
Our bodies will probably share some features we had in our earthly sojourn, to the point we'd be recognisable to those we knew should they happen to join us, but the reality is we don't know what our transcendent bodies will be like. What does come through in every vision of saints who have "seen" heaven is an overwhelming light. None of them seem to have gone into any great detail about the appearance of the glorified saints, but they all mention incredible beauty.
Heaven as Described by the Saints
Another Carmelite mystic, St. Mary of Jesus Crucified, 1846-1878, experienced a vision of heaven after she died from several knife wounds. “I saw the Blessed Virgin, the angels and the saints who welcomed me with great kindness,” she says, “I even saw my parents in the middle of them. I contemplated the radiant throne of the Holy Trinity, and Our Lord Jesus Christ in his humanity. There was no sun, no lamps, and yet everything shone with an indescribable light.”
Er ... I presume she had a near death experience and somehow recovered from the knife wounds. She could obviously recognise her parents, who had predeceased her, and been sent to greet her.