About six weeks ago I received a rejection letter from the seminary I applied to. I didn't even know seminaries rejected people. They didn't give me anything more than a cookie-cutter, CYA reason, which I consider to be pretty damn insulting, especially coming from what is supposed to be one of the top seminaries in America. What frustrates me the most is the whole time every person that was helping me through the process assured me that I had nothing to worry about, and that the seminary definitely wanted me there, and then it turns out they definitely DON'T want me there.
Since then I have relapsed on all of the addictions that I had worked so hard to control through prayer and determination. I have yet to find a church that I fit in with the members - church-goers in my area don't seem too accepting of single, childless 39-year old radicals who want more out of life than the usual 6-days-a-week wordly capitalism/1-day-a-week Christian mindset. So now I sit here struggling to control deep anger and resentment towards the people who are supposed to be my allies, while also turning my life away from the friends who were agnostics, atheists, and "non-religious" Christians who essentially don't see a relationship with God as having any sort of meaningful impact on human life.
I pray and pray and pray that God will help me. I have no job and am almost completely out of money. I struggle with both addictions and medical problems. I ask specifically for the energy to get out and do whatever it is God wants me to do. What else am I supposed to ask for? Isn't the only thing we are supposed to care about in this life is what he wants? How can he deny my plea for help when I specifically ask him for help in the one thing that matters?
If God cannot help someone that specifically asks him for help in fulfilling His will, then it pretty much turns on edge the entire point of the Bible. It's not like I'm praying for more money or more things or a wife or anything. Am I just supposed to assume that his will must therefore be that I continue to suffer until my funds are completely exhausted, and I am homeless wandering the streets of my city?
If John 14:6 is true, and a relationship with Jesus is all that we need, then why is my life continuing to fall apart, despite my pleas for him to help me? [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] am I not doing right?
Since then I have relapsed on all of the addictions that I had worked so hard to control through prayer and determination. I have yet to find a church that I fit in with the members - church-goers in my area don't seem too accepting of single, childless 39-year old radicals who want more out of life than the usual 6-days-a-week wordly capitalism/1-day-a-week Christian mindset. So now I sit here struggling to control deep anger and resentment towards the people who are supposed to be my allies, while also turning my life away from the friends who were agnostics, atheists, and "non-religious" Christians who essentially don't see a relationship with God as having any sort of meaningful impact on human life.
I pray and pray and pray that God will help me. I have no job and am almost completely out of money. I struggle with both addictions and medical problems. I ask specifically for the energy to get out and do whatever it is God wants me to do. What else am I supposed to ask for? Isn't the only thing we are supposed to care about in this life is what he wants? How can he deny my plea for help when I specifically ask him for help in the one thing that matters?
If God cannot help someone that specifically asks him for help in fulfilling His will, then it pretty much turns on edge the entire point of the Bible. It's not like I'm praying for more money or more things or a wife or anything. Am I just supposed to assume that his will must therefore be that I continue to suffer until my funds are completely exhausted, and I am homeless wandering the streets of my city?
If John 14:6 is true, and a relationship with Jesus is all that we need, then why is my life continuing to fall apart, despite my pleas for him to help me? [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] am I not doing right?