Hi, I'm brand new to the forum, but i look forward to any advice that is offerred. I am a 20 old Sheriff's Deputy and have come to a cross road in my life. It's almost like i don't even know who I am. I know deep down that I am a good person because it really shows up strong when I am interacting with people on the job. But the problem is that I don't really know who I am. I find myself acting differently around people based on who they are. I guess instead of being a thermostat I'm more like a thermometer. But the problem is I want to be my own man but I'm having a hard time finding him.