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I want wisdom

Discussion in 'Prayer Wall' started by christsoccer, Nov 17, 2013.

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  1. Officer

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    You know what? Lion is correct. I've had too many hookups in my life and not enough solid relationships. Sure, I know how to get girls, but when push comes to shove, I don't know enough about getting a good, Christian woman who would make a fine wife. Carry on, brothers and sisters.
     
  2. christsoccer

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    Don’t Be Friends First | More Than Don't Have Sex

    Can someone please explain the point this blog post is trying to make? I get SOOO confused about the whole being friends first.... Half the advice I get or read says don't be friends first and the other half says it's perfectly okay. This aspect of friends, friendzones and attraction when it comes to relationships or potential ones drives me crazy and is VERY DISCOURAGING to my outlook on the topic.
    Please someone, slap some sense into my head :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:
     
  3. Officer

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    The author is correct. You can't become friends with a girl first and then expect to be her boyfriend later. The girl is either attracted to you or she's not. You can't win a girl over by being a "friend" to her first. I can only think of one time that I've hooked up with a friend and that's because she refused to go out with me when we were both cater waiters. When I told her I became a cop, she wanted to start dating so in reality, it wasn't a friendship to a hookup deal. It was more of a girl who is attracted to men in uniform deal. Not only that, the girl knew I was interested even when we had the same job because I did ask her out even then. Friends to partners is a rare thing. It might happen once in a blue, but more times than not, it falls by the wayside.
     
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