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I want to have sex with women all the time?

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I think generally I'm pretty peaceful, but then there's this other side of me that seems to drive or push me forward into different directions and I almost thought maybe deep down I wasn't altogether really that great of a person, I am very flawed, but then I think it's because I want to have sex with all kinds of different women all the time, what do I do?
 

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We are all human. your actions are what define you, not your involuntary thoughts. Anyway, Maybe your shame is digging you further into temptation. That is, you try so hard to get rid of a sexual thought, that you give into it more out of fear. remain calm and Give yourself something to do instead of dwell on those thoughts. In confession on priest gave me the advice to have a little creed about what I seek to be "I am a son of God.... Ect.....", instead of focusing on what I seek NOT to be. Cause the more you try to not think about something the more you think about it.

Sometimes a desire for sex is a manifestation of anxiety, or ununsed energy. So if you can figure out what your putting off or evading, use that energy to deal with that. Or let it out into creativity. Stuff like that.
 
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We are all human. your actions are what define you, not your involuntary thoughts. Anyway, Maybe your shame is digging you further into temptation. That is, you try so hard to get rid of a sexual thought, that you give into it more out of fear. remain calm and Give yourself something to do instead of dwell on those thoughts. In confession on priest gave me the advice to have a little creed about what I seek to be "I am a son of God.... Ect.....", instead of focusing on what I seek NOT to be. Cause the more you try to not think about something the more you think about it.

Sometimes a desire for sex is a manifestation of anxiety, or ununsed energy. So if you can figure out what your putting off or evading, use that energy to deal with that.
Should I avoid women altogether? Sometimes I start to hyper-ventilate and my face gets hot and flustered and I can't calm down.
 
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I want to have sex with all kinds of different women all the time, what do I do?
Paul said to get married.

You are starved for sexual expression and looking for any kind of sex with anyone to satisfy that hunger.

Start praying for God to bring your future spouse to you and to prepare yourself for marriage.
 
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