A month ago i found out that two of my good friends are homosexual,i really dono wat to do. to make matters worse one of them is a girl and she's toooooo over friendly towards me!! cant handle it!! dono wat to do!! i need some advise
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And its not a matter of remaining friends with, its how do i relate with her?
no i havent and thats bcoz if i tried to she would take it differently. ma mum thinks i should just break off the friendship or keep away frm her but i dono whether its such a great idea. iguess i should try talkin to her.Have you tried talking to your friend and explaining that the way she behaves aound you make you uncomfortable?
Just ask her if she has feelings for you. Maybe she's just an affectionate person and is attracted to someone else.
Frankly i dont want to knw we've been friend for 2 years, i dont want to think she was intrested in me all that tym!!If she does have feelings for you then I suppose it would be the same as if she was a guy whom you were not interested in. The same awkwardness I think would apply.
no i havent and thats bcoz if i tried to she would take it differently. my mum thinks i should just break off the friendship or keep away frm her but i dono whether its such a great idea. iguess i should try talkin to her.Have you tried talking to your friend and explaining that the way she behaves aound you make you uncomfortable?
Just ask her if she has feelings for you. Maybe she's just an affectionate person and is attracted to someone else.
Frankly i dont want to knw, we've been friend for 2 years, i dont want to think she was intrested in me all that tym!!If she does have feelings for you then I suppose it would be the same as if she was a guy whom you were not interested in. The same awkwardness I think would apply.
Did you try to partake them?A month ago i found out that two of my good friends are homosexual,i really dono wat to do. to make matters worse one of them is a girl and she's toooooo over friendly towards me!! cant handle it!! dono wat to do!! i need some advise
Well, would it be different if she was a guy? I can't think of another way to end the mystery of how she behaves around you than to ask her.
no i havent and thats bcoz if i tried to she would take it differently. my mum thinks i should just break off the friendship or keep away frm her but i dono whether its such a great idea. iguess i should try talkin to her.
Frankly i dont want to knw, we've been friend for 2 years, i dont want to think she was intrested in me all that tym!!
Thanx very much for the advise. And ya since starting the thread i have come a long way. at first i had this condemning atittude but now i guess God has really worked on me and helped me things differently.I am new, but couldn't help putting my two cents in. I am an ex-gay. After much prayer and deliverance I have finally begun to be attracted to men again and I am very thankful for it. From my past, living as a lesbian before I was saved, I just have to say that I experienced alot of hateful things. People yelling at me, rude remarks, etc. it was very painful. Also, I had friends that because I am an affectionate person they assumed I was hitting on them. Just like not all straight men are attracted to every woman...it hurts when someone who you thought was a friend stops talking to you. I am in NO WAY advocating a gay lifestyle. I am lucky that the Lord took me out of that bondage myself. I am just saying that a person who is going through issues of homosexuality, whether they show it outwardly or not, are probably going through some very painful internal emotions and as Christians I don't feel we should inflict pain on anyone...rather I think it is better to be kind to everyone and seek to witness whenever possible to help them. Who knows you're friend may one day ask for your help spiritually to know God better...if you lose the friendship you wouldn't have that opportunity.