My ex-girlfriend, who has been a struggling Christian since her husband divorced her, has suddenly started dating a non-believer. Not just a non-believer, but an actual pagan. I think he professes to follow Wicca or something like that.
Anyway, they're pretty serious, and she tells me they've even discussed marriage. I also get the distinct feeling he's convinced her to sleep with him already; just a hunch based on the way they act around each other now. She's even started dabbling in magic!!
I'm completely at a loss. I don't have a clue what I should be doing for her. I pray every night, but it doesn't seem to be helping. I don't know whether or not it's possible for her to lose her salvation, but I'd rather not watch her test it, you know?
And it's not like it could just be some rebellion phase... she's 30, for crying out loud.
Does anyone have any advice? She seems to ignore me completely now whenever I try to talk about God the Bible... she's got a few pat answers and otherwise avoids the topic entirely. It really hurts because she was a very good Christian before meeting this man, even though she was struggling with her husband's abandonment. I really need to know how I can help, some days I just want to cry over it.
Anyway, they're pretty serious, and she tells me they've even discussed marriage. I also get the distinct feeling he's convinced her to sleep with him already; just a hunch based on the way they act around each other now. She's even started dabbling in magic!!
I'm completely at a loss. I don't have a clue what I should be doing for her. I pray every night, but it doesn't seem to be helping. I don't know whether or not it's possible for her to lose her salvation, but I'd rather not watch her test it, you know?
And it's not like it could just be some rebellion phase... she's 30, for crying out loud.
Does anyone have any advice? She seems to ignore me completely now whenever I try to talk about God the Bible... she's got a few pat answers and otherwise avoids the topic entirely. It really hurts because she was a very good Christian before meeting this man, even though she was struggling with her husband's abandonment. I really need to know how I can help, some days I just want to cry over it.