Good day fellow brothers and sisters!
i just wanted to share my problems with you all and see if anyone relates!
i am a 17 year old guy and struggle to socialise...almost every single person i meet says im weird ...
I jes cant relate to anyone at all.....i try to keep to myself most of the time cause im a very reserved person....but someone always has to urge to come up to me to criticise...
i am also a very shy person! I love talking with people but its like there not interested.
These days i jes attend school and rarely speak with anyone....
I stutter sometimes, I always do quick short convos. I sound all nervous. I rarely talk for long periods of time. I rarely talk to a group of people. I'm never assertive. My voice is really low. People always ask me to repeat myself. People always say 'what'. And my voice doesn't sound smooth and sounds like I'm forcing it. When I think, I have so many thoughts an ideas I want to get out, when I try speaking it, it's all choppy and I can never think out loud on the spot. Lots of umms uhh..
Why am I so nervous. I always feel confident, but my voice and body language just sucks. Why is it. How can I improve and project?
I Cant communicate well at all! :''(
I had an injury when i was 6 years of age where i broke my nose after getting whipped across my face by a steel wire in a race
.. the thing is that i never got it looked at and now my nose is bent and my face is slight slanted to the right...
As years go by unchecked,I started to develop sinus problems,nose bleeds and trouble breathing when i have a flu...the problems dont end there....you know how your ears,nose and throat are connected thus the term ENT.....yeah I also have frequent sore throats and dryness in my mouth....My hearing on the other hand is quite wierd..i sometimes feel like my right ear is muffled until i yawn....then i hear a pop in my throat (yes its disgusting) and my ears....and after that i have a temporary relief of breathing problems and hearing for about a few minutes..
I should proberly check it out..
I attend a 7-4 i.t class during the week and not just my class but my entire school has no christians i can talk too....but i always go to a place outside where there is an empty seat to be with God!.. and i always find peace.....
Of course a school with no other christians i have to face persecution on a daily basis....for my faith(sometimes i leave my computer for a second and go somewhere and when i come back theres a satanic pentagram as my wallpaper and because i am soo quiet! poeple have to urge to tell me they dont trust me!!..haha i mean what?....they say things like "you feel your soo innocent" which could not be anything but far from the truth....
even staying quiet and keeping to myself is a problem cause everyone comes up and asks(including my teacher) "are you okay?" ....
All i have is God!!....
I cant talk to my parents cause they are not christians and not interested in living for God.....they curse,quarell and fight all the time....
i Pray and ask God for help and I TRUST HIM ALL THE WAY! ....
but im simply sharing my problems and seek advice on anything i need to improve and how to do it from fellow brother and sisters in the Lord...
Have a blessed day everyone!
i just wanted to share my problems with you all and see if anyone relates!
i am a 17 year old guy and struggle to socialise...almost every single person i meet says im weird ...
I jes cant relate to anyone at all.....i try to keep to myself most of the time cause im a very reserved person....but someone always has to urge to come up to me to criticise...
i am also a very shy person! I love talking with people but its like there not interested.
These days i jes attend school and rarely speak with anyone....
I stutter sometimes, I always do quick short convos. I sound all nervous. I rarely talk for long periods of time. I rarely talk to a group of people. I'm never assertive. My voice is really low. People always ask me to repeat myself. People always say 'what'. And my voice doesn't sound smooth and sounds like I'm forcing it. When I think, I have so many thoughts an ideas I want to get out, when I try speaking it, it's all choppy and I can never think out loud on the spot. Lots of umms uhh..
Why am I so nervous. I always feel confident, but my voice and body language just sucks. Why is it. How can I improve and project?
I Cant communicate well at all! :''(
I had an injury when i was 6 years of age where i broke my nose after getting whipped across my face by a steel wire in a race
.. the thing is that i never got it looked at and now my nose is bent and my face is slight slanted to the right...As years go by unchecked,I started to develop sinus problems,nose bleeds and trouble breathing when i have a flu...the problems dont end there....you know how your ears,nose and throat are connected thus the term ENT.....yeah I also have frequent sore throats and dryness in my mouth....My hearing on the other hand is quite wierd..i sometimes feel like my right ear is muffled until i yawn....then i hear a pop in my throat (yes its disgusting
) and my ears....and after that i have a temporary relief of breathing problems and hearing for about a few minutes..I should proberly check it out..
I attend a 7-4 i.t class during the week and not just my class but my entire school has no christians i can talk too....but i always go to a place outside where there is an empty seat to be with God!.. and i always find peace.....
Of course a school with no other christians i have to face persecution on a daily basis....for my faith(sometimes i leave my computer for a second and go somewhere and when i come back theres a satanic pentagram as my wallpaper and because i am soo quiet! poeple have to urge to tell me they dont trust me!!..haha i mean what?....they say things like "you feel your soo innocent" which could not be anything but far from the truth....
even staying quiet and keeping to myself is a problem cause everyone comes up and asks(including my teacher) "are you okay?" ....
All i have is God!!....
I cant talk to my parents cause they are not christians and not interested in living for God.....they curse,quarell and fight all the time....
i Pray and ask God for help and I TRUST HIM ALL THE WAY! ....
but im simply sharing my problems and seek advice on anything i need to improve and how to do it from fellow brother and sisters in the Lord...
Have a blessed day everyone!
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