OK, this is clearly serious stuff; as a Coptic Orthodox Christian I know how tough it is to want to convert in the Middle East; Islam will regard you as an apostate -
Anglian
Indeed, they will regard him or her as an apostate but the truth is ...are they correct even within their own religion?
They are wrong!!! even according to their own scriptures.
Yes, it is worth noting that an apostate according to Islamic law is one who threatens the security of the community. This is called an act of
treason.
The fact that many followers of this faith in the past had rejected that path became 'estranged' from that path. They were not only seen as leaving that particular religion but also becoming traitors to their own people and community, hence the rule that it was an act of apostasy.
Unlike early Christianity, the rule here is that the person is seen as a threat to the larger community (committing an act of treason).
So, what we must first do is try to remember that an act of apostasy according to the Islam tradition is based on treason. These are the facts.
Please look this up. Do your own research. Come to your own conclusions
When encountering a situation such as the OP, it is better to interact in a way that will appeal to all. We are here to make sense of the situation, not antagonise and create more alienation, isolation and hatred.
So, the OP has decided to leave his former path? ... next, we don't jump on the family with legs and arms flying making animal shreiks like some kung fu star, we cut out the animal approach.
Talk sensibly, bring love into the action -think tender Jesus - not some Deep South Minister going red in the face about to explode, frothing at the mouth like a demoniac.
Talk about the situaution, why is the OP an apostate? Can they prove that he or she is a threat to the community? Challenge the view they hold that conversion from their faith is not an act of treason. (You will need to have picked up on a few commentaries/references for this).
How is this an act of treason? Talk to them... reason with them. Be peaceful, loving and honourable.
You see, what we have here are two parties, with the same uneducated, ignorant and illiterate view of a subject. What we are doing is joining in with the delusion when we agree with the parents and try to win the 'deal' by accusing them of being wrong. When in fact, what we should be proving is what they think is an act of apostasy is in fact wrong.
In other words ... they are not wrong, (this will just make them more annoyed - you are attacking them!) but their views are wrongly interpreted.
Be diplomatic!
This is wisdom. Not arrogance. The approach to such situautions requires a sound mind, knowledge of their fath, no haste, cool headedness, a calm and collected, loving approach.
That's why I say, quit the hate mongering authors such as
Daniel Pipes and
Robert Spencer ... you are only going to alienate, isolate and cause more conflict. As I said in my earlier thread, these guys are not worth it. They have their own ulterior motives. They are not interested in the life of Christ, but the state of Israel.
There are easier ways of dealing with such situations ... the long lost forgotten tradition of Jesus Christ. Believe me, one cannot lose!!!