I’m 25 and I have a 7 year old daughter me and the mother are not together anymore for a few years now. We weren’t married.. and I have problems with myself being a “dad”.
and by problems I mean I never really grew up with a father and I do not really know how to be a dad.. and I do try my best to be a dad.. but I feel I fail..
because I’m not really involved in her life as much as I would like to be a part of her life.
I do hear from her mom at times of her asking about her dad so it would warm my heart knowing that my daughter does care about her dad..
But I hardly visit her about 2 or 3 times a month.. it doesn’t seem like I’m really spending time with her when I see her and I would be discouraged and condemn myself at times because I think I am no good.. I mean one thing I want to give my daughter is for
her to have her dad in her life in the past I was so set on making that a reality.. but the times I do see her discourage me because I know nothing about being a father..and I would seem to just drift away...from seeing her.
It’s still in my heart to be in her life I don’t want her to have no dad.. but this is challenging for me....
any support and advice on this?. I hope I typed this correctly if you understand ?
and by problems I mean I never really grew up with a father and I do not really know how to be a dad.. and I do try my best to be a dad.. but I feel I fail..
because I’m not really involved in her life as much as I would like to be a part of her life.
I do hear from her mom at times of her asking about her dad so it would warm my heart knowing that my daughter does care about her dad..
But I hardly visit her about 2 or 3 times a month.. it doesn’t seem like I’m really spending time with her when I see her and I would be discouraged and condemn myself at times because I think I am no good.. I mean one thing I want to give my daughter is for
her to have her dad in her life in the past I was so set on making that a reality.. but the times I do see her discourage me because I know nothing about being a father..and I would seem to just drift away...from seeing her.
It’s still in my heart to be in her life I don’t want her to have no dad.. but this is challenging for me....
any support and advice on this?. I hope I typed this correctly if you understand ?