Story: My girlfriend and I are half the world apart. She's in Asia, I'm in the USA. Frankly, the relationships' days are numbered and I have also communicated in the past that we would most likely not get married. I am not sure we even technically still count as being in a relationship.
Nevertheless, I feel guilty over having contacted some women on dating websites and chatting them up, and also asking out a nearby local woman out on a date. I feel that I have cheated on my girlfriend, even though I am extremely unlikely to ever meet up with the women on the dating websites either. It has gotten to the point where I feel I cannot participate on the worship team at my church because of the Matthew commandment, do not offer your offering unless you have had reconciliation with a Christian whom you have wronged.
Even though my girlfriend knows nothing about this, and technically wouldn't be hurt unless I let her know, I am not sure what to do now. I feel I should confess, and yet I also feel I should not confess.
Nevertheless, I feel guilty over having contacted some women on dating websites and chatting them up, and also asking out a nearby local woman out on a date. I feel that I have cheated on my girlfriend, even though I am extremely unlikely to ever meet up with the women on the dating websites either. It has gotten to the point where I feel I cannot participate on the worship team at my church because of the Matthew commandment, do not offer your offering unless you have had reconciliation with a Christian whom you have wronged.
Even though my girlfriend knows nothing about this, and technically wouldn't be hurt unless I let her know, I am not sure what to do now. I feel I should confess, and yet I also feel I should not confess.