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i dont know what is going on or where god is

Discussion in 'Obsessive Compulsive Disorder' started by knw1991, Nov 12, 2017.

  1. knw1991

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    Thanks for offering your help, but no one can help me, nobody has the answers, I have given up
     
  2. God is good

    God is good Well-Known Member

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    Please don't give up, Jesus really loves you and I know that you know that but please know how much God really loves you. I have ocd too and I have posted on here a lot of times and it's really hard especially when you feel alone. I don't know what I can say to help but please just seek God and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Jesus is with you forever, God bless you and keep you. You are valuable to God no matter what has happened in your life. He sent His one and only Son to die for you. God bless you and Jesus is Lord.
     
  3. knw1991

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    I have been going in circles. I have tried to open my heart to God over and over and trust but the pain hits me, ige tried to cry out to God throughtthe pain, but eventually the betrayal and the pain of what he allowed and how he was not there hits me and I just can't hold on anymore. People always say cry out to God. For what? It changes nothing? You can cry all day but that doesn't mean he hears you, or even cares. I've been crying for six years. Left to look unstable and crazy by so called family that should have been there for me.thry turned on me and treated me cruelly with their words. I made a mistake in 2011, better yet I made a mistake prior to that would I even showed interest in God. I should've never opened my life or mt heart to him. He's cruel. My words may be offensiveto many but this is my truth. I made a mistake but I thought I was doing right by trying to find God. He never called me. John says God draws people to himself. But he did nkt draw me.and that's why he's absent. He didn't want me. I've wasted six years looking for God who doesn't want me and doesn't care. Things have got worse and I'm done. I'm done trying. Im not crying anymore. I'm not going to beg for God to be there or love me. He doesn't love me. He proved that. I'm not going to try and believe and wait anymore, I've waited six years and it's all pointless. Why should I think that the same God that lets children be murdered, let's a whole race of people be massacred and tortured, would be merciful enough to help me. If God would allow the horrific things that happen to occur why would I be exempt from him never helping me for the rest of my life. And then were told to believe and serve this God anyway though he leaves people in unbearable pain, with broken hearts for the rest of their life. There's no hope in God. He has helped and healed others but he doesn't want or love me. He definitely doesn't care about me
     
  4. 1am3laine

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    GOD is not just a feeling but a Spirit. Read Psalms 18 aloud atleast 4 times a day and that will strengthen you.
    GOD doesn't always show up when you want Him to but He is always there on time.
    Don't give up because losers do that.
    We are overcomers that overcome any situation. ( Revelation 12:11 )
    Praying in the Holy Spirit also helps because we don't know that to pray for as we ought! ( Romans 8:26 )

    It's easy to lose but hard to WIN!
    It's many players but few CHAMPIONS! ( Matthew 7:13-14, Mark 4:13-20 )
     
  5. knw1991

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    It's not worth it. Everything I did was a wast. I hate God and I wish I never opened my life and heart. Nonbelievers are better off than I am. They can get saved tomorrow and God would save them, clean them up, be in their lives, they don't develop depression about whether there saved or nott. I'm not wanted by God or anyone. I'm destined to be alone, with no kids im not enough for anyone nit even God wanted me
     
  6. 1am3laine

    1am3laine Active Member

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    You should get church counseling.
    Also call some prayer lines.
    Immerse yourself in the WORD.
    When going to sleep keep daystar/tbn christian stations on to cool the mind.
    GOD loves you!
     
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