I've always prided myself in my ability to read people. I can tell when people are lying, hiding feelings, feeling way uncomfortable, etc. Easily. But I realized something. I can't read attraction. At all. Part of it is because I literally have zero luck with the guys I've liked in the past, and another part is because the only relationship I've ever been in was five years ago and it lasted less than three months. Soooo I don't have much experience.
Which leads to this problem. I'm friends with a guy from my church, and I really like him. My friends and mother have been encouraging me and saying that it's clear he likes me, but I really don't know. He's a very outgoing person, really funny, and is easy to talk to. He could simply be being friendly... or there could be something more there. He honestly looks at me and smiles at me like I've never had a person do before.
But before I list off reasons why I think there's something more there, I thought I'd just ask how can someone tell when someone is interested in them?
I know. I'm almost twenty and I don't know the answer to this haha. I honestly don't have much experience with this so it's hard for me to know for sure. I just don't want to get my hopes up that things will work out with us if they won't. I've gone through a lot of heartbreak and disappointment in the last two years.
Thanks
Which leads to this problem. I'm friends with a guy from my church, and I really like him. My friends and mother have been encouraging me and saying that it's clear he likes me, but I really don't know. He's a very outgoing person, really funny, and is easy to talk to. He could simply be being friendly... or there could be something more there. He honestly looks at me and smiles at me like I've never had a person do before.
But before I list off reasons why I think there's something more there, I thought I'd just ask how can someone tell when someone is interested in them?
I know. I'm almost twenty and I don't know the answer to this haha. I honestly don't have much experience with this so it's hard for me to know for sure. I just don't want to get my hopes up that things will work out with us if they won't. I've gone through a lot of heartbreak and disappointment in the last two years.
Thanks