I’m scared God is going to kill me in a plane crash

[DamianWarS]

Not long ago (a couple of months ago) I was scared to get on a plane and my a vow with god basically like “hey God please don’t kill me in a plane crash and I’ll do... yada yada yada” well I’m unhappy to see I’ve don’t “yada yada” plenty of times. It was (having sex/masturbating by the way). That was the only “really” sinful thing I thought I was doing at the time. Now I’m scared to death to get on a plane and fear I’ll be the victim of an aerobatic accident due to not keeping my vow. I’ve “repented” and the fear still lingers in me. I realize that in the Bible God is claimed to be merciful but the stories I’ve read (Golden Calf, David’s adultery and Ananias and Sapphira) it seems God isn’t that merciful even when one is repentant (David’s son still being killed). I don’t want this fear to stop from living my life and traveling but...

Jesus said when the adulterous women was about to be stoned "he who is without sin let him cast the first stone". The thing is Jesus was the one that was without sin and he did not condemn her. If God wanted you dead avoiding plane travel won't stop him but we have another answer than fear because Christ is not in the business of hurling stones so if you want forgiveness seek Christ and he will forgive your sins.

 

[now faith]

Would God murder others, who are innocent people to destroy one who has sinned?
Your fear is gone if you repent, God promises to forgive us.

 

[Blade]

Bind the spirit of fear..its written God has not given you the spirit of fear but of power and love and a sound mind PERIOD. Fear.. not of God.. if God is talking to you.. WHAT are the FRUITS of the spirit? "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control."

If we sin..confess.. He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleans us from ALL ALL ALL unrighteousness.

 

[Paidiske]

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[TommySoda]

Bind the spirit of fear..its written God has not given you the spirit of fear but of power and love and a sound mind PERIOD. Fear.. not of God.. if God is talking to you.. WHAT are the FRUITS of the spirit? "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control."

If we sin..confess.. He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleans us from ALL ALL ALL unrighteousness.

I just hope you’re right...