Hi,
I know this is not a new issue for any married woman but what (biblical) advice from husbands and wives would you give to me? I just don't trust him anymore because he lies and denies it and I have lost repsect for him. He not only looks, he looks twice, three time and so on. Now, he literally walks behind me when we are out in public and if I am looking his way, he looks the other way but as soon as I turn back, I catch him. It is like he waits until he feels he can get away with it. He read "every mans battle" and swears he doesn't look and he even gets angry if I say something. I stopped saying anything but I think what bothers me most is his dishonesty. Why won't he just admit it and we can work together on the issue? Why does he lie and make it sound like I am making it up? He even told me once he felt I just want to start arguments...are you serious!!!! It has gotten to the point where I won't even look at him in public because if I see him stare at a girl, it just crushes me inside and as much as I pray and beg God for it to not bother me and for me to not even see it, It still crushes me. Any advice? Its been almost two years of this and I can honestly say, my heart is getting to the point where it is just automatically building a wall and with that, I am losing desire to even want to be intimate with him.
I know this is not a new issue for any married woman but what (biblical) advice from husbands and wives would you give to me? I just don't trust him anymore because he lies and denies it and I have lost repsect for him. He not only looks, he looks twice, three time and so on. Now, he literally walks behind me when we are out in public and if I am looking his way, he looks the other way but as soon as I turn back, I catch him. It is like he waits until he feels he can get away with it. He read "every mans battle" and swears he doesn't look and he even gets angry if I say something. I stopped saying anything but I think what bothers me most is his dishonesty. Why won't he just admit it and we can work together on the issue? Why does he lie and make it sound like I am making it up? He even told me once he felt I just want to start arguments...are you serious!!!! It has gotten to the point where I won't even look at him in public because if I see him stare at a girl, it just crushes me inside and as much as I pray and beg God for it to not bother me and for me to not even see it, It still crushes me. Any advice? Its been almost two years of this and I can honestly say, my heart is getting to the point where it is just automatically building a wall and with that, I am losing desire to even want to be intimate with him.