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The OP says that the invitation was to US - which includes her. Yes, it was issued to the husband because the OP is not in contact with her, but she WAS included in the invitation.
The step-son's mother is not very involved in his life. The ex was a big part of his life and they have a close relationship. She is not just his Godmother, she was his mother figure during their relationship.
I understand your concerns, but it certainly seems unwarranted in this situation. The husband is being open and honest with her. He conveyed the invitation that was extended to all of them. The ex's husband will be present at his baby's birthday party. The OP will be present. It seems highly unlikely that anything untoward is going to happen. And she may see this relationship with her own eyes and come to a completely different conclusion, but right now there seems little danger of that, and no reason for her not to attend and see for herself. She still has time to listen to any alarms that may sound after the birthday party.
The step-son's mother is not very involved in his life. The ex was a big part of his life and they have a close relationship. She is not just his Godmother, she was his mother figure during their relationship.
I understand your concerns, but it certainly seems unwarranted in this situation. The husband is being open and honest with her. He conveyed the invitation that was extended to all of them. The ex's husband will be present at his baby's birthday party. The OP will be present. It seems highly unlikely that anything untoward is going to happen. And she may see this relationship with her own eyes and come to a completely different conclusion, but right now there seems little danger of that, and no reason for her not to attend and see for herself. She still has time to listen to any alarms that may sound after the birthday party.
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