- May 29, 2017
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- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Non-Denom
- Marital Status
- Married
I am extremely embarrassed about my situation, but I need help. It is possible that my husband and I are not equally yoked. He often denies intimacy and tells me it is his decision, not mine. I am usually the one who is needy and he wants me to be happy and pleasant at all times, even if I feel sad and need my husband.
When he is sick, things get worse, because he usually has denied intimacy for a long time (many weeks) and then if he has a cold or minor ailment it means we will need to wait a bit longer before we can make that blessed connection which all married couples should enjoy. I am miserable most of the time but he gets angry if I show it. I think he feels bad because he knows I am feeling needy.
I just dont know how to handle it. I pray a lot. Any suggestions?
When he is sick, things get worse, because he usually has denied intimacy for a long time (many weeks) and then if he has a cold or minor ailment it means we will need to wait a bit longer before we can make that blessed connection which all married couples should enjoy. I am miserable most of the time but he gets angry if I show it. I think he feels bad because he knows I am feeling needy.
I just dont know how to handle it. I pray a lot. Any suggestions?