Focus on what our Lord Jesus Christs Life here on earth was like, what our Lord Jesus Christ gave up and did without in His Holy Will and Holy Ways, what our Most Holy Blessed Virgin Mother gave up for God during Her Life as a Wife and Mother to our Lord Jesus Christ and assisting many other families and people during Her Life while enduring hardships beyond our comprehension in this day and age, no washing machines, no fridges, no shoes on many occasions, no towels, no pillows for our Lord Jesus Christ to rest His Holy Divine Head of a night, no Light Switches, no Choice of Foods, no Socks, no Cooling, no Heating, no Running Taps, no running Showers, limited Clothing, few Fruits of choice, sleeping out in the open on many occasions while travelling on hard dirty bumpy rough Roads with thistles and briars snakes and scorpions, while enduring abuse, stones thrown at Him, people trying to take His Life regularly, with Holy Mother Mary knowing this and worrying most greatly during our Lord Jesus Christs Holy Ministry years and previously. Most Holy Mother darning clothes the bare necessities for Holy Saint Joseph and His Sons and for our Lord Jesus Christ and Herself while living in great Poverty chosen by Most Holy Mother Mary in God back to when She was a young Infant/Child placed in the Holy Convent/Gods Holy Temple loving and serving God with all of her Heart and Soul.
My own earthly father had no electricity, dirt tracks with a horse and sulky sitting alongside 5 brothers and sisters after losing his eldest brother in the war at 19 yrs of age, starving in severe drought for years as a Child in primary school, because they lived in a country location of which was producing nothing, not even a bit of fruit or meat or dairy, until one day His Mother prayed and attended Holy Mass, taking all of them to our Lord Jesus Christ in His Holy Catholic Church, and they all prayed together, stayed together thereafter, loved and supported one another until the very end of their lives with only a couple of brothers remaining and one sister. Do you know not one judgemental word has ever been heard from any of their lips about each other as Siblings? Nor about their own In-laws. All kept their marriages happy for the most part in our Lord Jesus Christ Whom although tested them when younger to see if they would turn to Him in complete love and trust and gratitude and attend Holy Confession to repent sins to Him, He immediately thereafter most profusely Gifted and Blessed every one of them and their Spouses financially as long as they kept attending Holy Mass and Holy Confession and assisted others during their lives. Out of the families I have known whom ceased visiting and receiving our Lord Jesus Christ in His Holy Divine Sacraments of Holy Confession and Holy Communion from hearts open to Him, some type of major devastation/sorrows has befallen them, whereas all of the Parents/Husbands and Wives whom kept attending Holy Mass, Holy Confession, prayed in Love and gratitude and trust in our Lord Jesus Christ, their lives and marriages still strong now into their 80s.
Without our Lord Jesus Christ our souls now and eternally have "nothing".
You offer up all of your Sufferings to our Lord Jesus Christ, Holy Spirit and to Most Holy Mother Mary making The Sign of The Cross and immersing your heart and soul and sufferings in our Lord Jesus Christ's Ocean of Mercy, Holy Sacred Wounds and Precious Holy Blood asking to Hold our Holy Mother Mary's Holy Hand in our Lord Jesus Christ to beseech God The Most High, praying on the strength of our Lord Jesus Christ's Bitter Passion, and for God to look through our Lord Jesus Christs Holy Sacred Wounds, Precious Holy Blood and upon our Lord Jesus and Most Holy Mother Mary's Love United for God our Heavenly Father, then immerse your spouse's heart and soul and your Infants Heart and soul then pray:
O Jesus Divine Redeemer be Merciful to us and to the whole world Amen
Strong God Holy God Holy Immortal God have Mercy on us and on the whole world Amen.
Grace and Mercy O My Jesus during present dangers cover us with Your Precious Blood Amen.
O Eternal Father grant us Mercy through The Blood of Jesus Christ Thy only Son grant us mercy we Beseech Thee, Amen. Amen. Amen.
x1 O Eternal Father I offer Thee the Wounds of our Lord Jesus Christ to heal the Wounds of our Souls Amen.
x 10 My Jesus Pardon and Mercy through the Merits of Thy Holy Wounds
Second Holy Decade
x 1 O Eternal Father...
x10 My Jesus Pardon and Mercy...
Third Holy Decade
x1 O Eternal Father...
x10 My Jesus Pardon and Mercy..
4th Holy Decade
x1 O Eternal Father...
x 10 My Jesus Pardon and Mercy...
5th Holy Decade
x1 O Eternal Father...
x10 My Jesus Pardon and Mercy...
Make The Sign of The Cross in Holy conclusion of our Lords Prayer delivered by Jesus Christ Himself to Holy Saint Marie Chambon in the 1900s now distributed with our Lords Holy Divine Wound Messages from Jesus Himself
Our Lord Jesus Christ said in His Holy Word that there is no Life without Him and His Precious Holy Divine Flesh and Holy Precious Blood.
Immerse your hearts and souls and receive our Lord in His Holy Communion and Holy Confession weekly while praying and while reading Gods Holy Word daily.
Trust in our Lord Jesus Christ and turn to Him in everything and for everything placing our Lord Jesus Christ first always - earthly spouses second
Then allow our Lord Jesus Christ Holy Spirit and Most Holy Mother Mary to guide you in relation to your earthly spouse and all of the other earthly things.
Financially
Write down all of your essentials for all of you as a Family
Deduct all of the non-essentials - every one of these including movies/movie hire, takeaway food, outings/fuel, newspapers, hairdressing appointments, alcohol if any, sweets, takeaway Coffees, and this includes your Spouse during his working day. Allow sweets only once a week together on a weekend to avoid him whingeing or complaining. Remove the things he whinges about. Entirely. Sweets, don't purchase them during Monday to Friday including biscuits/cakes. Television, remove it. Replace with Prayer from your heart to our Lord Jesus Christ and with Holy Mother Mary. If you really need and want our Lord Jesus Christ Holy Divine assistance, then eliminate/remove the things that are not in our Lord Jesus Christ. Cooking - if you are home for most of the day loving and minding your Baby and you have an income for Meat vegies to prepare for all of your evening meals, then you should really be cooking the Meals of an evening and preparing those earlier all ready for when he walks in the door. Particularly if your Husband is paying for most of the expenses in the household.
It is the right thing to do in our Lord Jesus Christ. Give give give sacrifice to our Lord Jesus Christ and don't complain other than to hand over to our Lord Jesus Christ and to Holy Mother Mary, for our Lord Jesus to heal hearts and change your lives in Him. To remove these twinges in Marriage in Him.
Our Lord Jesus uses all of our sufferings and sorrows for Soul Salvaton. Jesus told His Holy Saints/Nuns to offer up most greatly daily everything and anything we can offer up to Him without complaint.
For The Holy Souls in Purgatory for their Soul Salvation and for all Afflicted Souls and souls on their way to eternal damnation, for the sick and dying souls
Self Discipline offering up for our Lord Jesus Christ in Humility handing over our Hearts Souls and Sufferings is walking in our Lord Jesus Christ now and eternally and storing up our Treasures for Holy Heaven.
When your spouse is rude arrogant or obnoxious make The Sign of The Cross through him from your heart and mentally silently with him not knowing.
Pray for him and immerse his heart and soul daily.
Tell him that if he desires you to stay with him, then he must change his behaviour and ways in our Lord Jesus Christ Holy Spirit and in Most Holy Mother Mary, in God our Heavenly Father. And that you also will make the effort to reduce your social things in order to have a meal prepared of an evening, the home kept clean and tidy and a reduction in expenses until you are working again later on.
Pray this Prayer for your spouse after handing over his heart and soul to our Lord Jesus Christ in Jesus Holy Wound Chaplet above.
O Blood and Water which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a Fount of Mercy for us I trust in You x 3 times thinking of our Lord Jesus Christ on The Cross and His Sorrows and Sufferings.
Trust completely in our Lord Jesus Christ and say to Jesus and Holy Mother Mary,
Jesus I Trust in You, Jesus Mary I Love You, save souls, can You please help me and this Family urgently Amen
3 Our Fathers
3 Hail Marys
3 Glory Bes
With The Sign of The Cross made before and after these.
I will pray for your Family tomorrow to our Blessed Holy Trinity and to Most Holy Mother Mary for you and your Infant and Husband. Our Lord Jesus and Most Holy Mother Mary knows who you are and your Heart and situation. Jesus knows all of our hearts and situations and sufferings. Offer these up to our Lord Jesus in complete trust praying to Him from your heart and ask Him with our Most Holy Blessed Virgin Mother Mary to assist yourself and your Infant urgently.
Has your Infant been Baptized as yet?
If not that is your second Priority by our Lord Jesus Christ Holy Spirit through one of His Priests.
Then Holy Confession and Holy Communion weekly/regularly taking your Infant to receive our Lords Holy Divine Blessing at His Altar
Praying daily - thrice daily
Reading Gods Holy Word daily asking our Lord Jesus Christ and Holy Spirit and Most Holy Mother Mary to guide you in Holy Discernment
Join a Mother's Group in your local Church for a little company once a week or fortnight - be careful not to action the advice of those whom have separated because during the early stages of having a Baby it is normal for financial and other stresses to occur in every Family's life and these will disappear after the adjustment initially of one income reduced and or gone in the household. It takes time for adjustment mentally physically emotionally with both Parents. Everyone goes through this and these are our tests allowed by God our Heavenly Father to see if we are turning to Him, to our Lord Jesus Christ in complete trust handing over our Hearts, Souls, Life, daily life activities, everything to Jesus.
Consecrate your Heart and Soul and Life to our Lord Jesus Christ and His Holy Sacred Heart daily with The Our Fathers prayed
Consecrate your Heart and Soul and Life to our Most Holy Blessed Virgin Mother Marys Holy Immaculate Heart daily praying The Hail Marys.
Then Amen After The Sign of The Cross is made with Jesus on The Cross in front of you praying.