sdmsanjose
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something was a bit off, was when he told me she had discussed her marriage problems with him.
We both run a shop. She will pop into the shop. If he is there she sometimes stays for hours, sometimes all day. If I'm there she stays about 5 minutes
More recently, she confided in him and told him a "secret" that her husband can't be told (nothing inappropriate, just about her daughter, she wanted advice).
I snooped again today and they had a coffee in our home when I was at work yesterday and he never mentioned it.
Where there is smoke there is usually a fire. That woman is putting out a LOT of smoke.
If I were you I would tell your husband that this woman is causing you a whole LOT of worry and concern and that she is to stop all contact with your family. A female friend of your husband that is taking the above actions is way too risky to take any chances. With a situation like this your husband should back you up 100% and put this woman out of your family life.
There is a very good reason that pastors and others have made a rule that they are not to be with any female without a very responsible Christian or spouse to be present. One of the reasons that you have never heard of Billy Graham having any sexual scandals is because he has used that rule for over 70 years and it works!
The situation with the other woman and your husband is very risky and there needs to be a real change made immediately. If your husband does not take your side in this change then I would be very suspect of him. A husband’s wife is to be number one with no exceptions regarding other women; your husband does not need any other woman friends that like to be alone with him.
This is a slam dunk; the other woman has to be banished!
Why have you and your husband not been to a competent pastor to help with this situation? You are potentially playing with fire!
something was a bit off, was when he told me she had discussed her marriage problems with him.
We both run a shop. She will pop into the shop. If he is there she sometimes stays for hours, sometimes all day. If I'm there she stays about 5 minutes
More recently, she confided in him and told him a "secret" that her husband can't be told (nothing inappropriate, just about her daughter, she wanted advice).
I snooped again today and they had a coffee in our home when I was at work yesterday and he never mentioned it.
Where there is smoke there is usually a fire. That woman is putting out a LOT of smoke.
If I were you I would tell your husband that this woman is causing you a whole LOT of worry and concern and that she is to stop all contact with your family. A female friend of your husband that is taking the above actions is way too risky to take any chances. With a situation like this your husband should back you up 100% and put this woman out of your family life.
There is a very good reason that pastors and others have made a rule that they are not to be with any female without a very responsible Christian or spouse to be present. One of the reasons that you have never heard of Billy Graham having any sexual scandals is because he has used that rule for over 70 years and it works!
The situation with the other woman and your husband is very risky and there needs to be a real change made immediately. If your husband does not take your side in this change then I would be very suspect of him. A husband’s wife is to be number one with no exceptions regarding other women; your husband does not need any other woman friends that like to be alone with him.
This is a slam dunk; the other woman has to be banished!
Why have you and your husband not been to a competent pastor to help with this situation? You are potentially playing with fire!
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