Yitzchak
יצחק
- Jun 25, 2003
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Hi friends. Thank you for your advice and prayers. My husband and I are still going through difficult times and yes the woman he ( kissed )still works at the place my hubby works at.... and I'm really upset by it. Even though I am praying and fasting it still seems like things have not improved much. At the moment my husband has been coming home quite late from work. When I ask him if he has been by himself he states that he is. But I am still a bit suspicious of this, He says he needs space to try to figure out what to do about our marriage. "IMO "there is only one thing to do! that is to honor your marriage vows. At the moment I feel so isolated, he is aware that i don't enjoy being alone all day and night. Last night I thought I might die of lonliness. I am still hoping and praying that he comes to his senses soon and see that God blessed him with me and our adult son-- and that is where he belongs. I an wondering if he might be suffering from some sort of mid-life crisis? he is in his late 40's. Does anyone have any insight on this? Please continue to pray freinds. Your prayers mean a lot. God bless.
I am sure that your prayer and fasting are working. My wife and I have often decided upon a season of fasting and prayer for a given situation and watched the situation change for the worse. It seems to be a part of the process many times. I am not sure why. But when it gets worse, it means God is working and it will be brought to a clear decision point. By the end, your husband will either repent fully or he will leave you.
I am praying for you because I think a lot more will be exposed before it is all over.
As for the whole midlife crisis thing. There are critical times in a person's life when there are major transitions. For the same reason that the teen years are so rocky, so are other transitions oftentimes. Problems seem to surface at these key times. I would not focus too much on the details of it. Just that major changes have the potential for incredible groweth. They also make a person very vunerable to huge mistakes.
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