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Another thread was discussing shaved legs, etc. And one of the posters referenced that women feel pressured to present themselves various ways.
This isn't just limited to ladies, but wondering how folks feel about such things as jewelry, makeup, shaving, high heels, hose, etc. Should anyone feel the need to make themselves attractive on a regular basis?
What about those who do so when dating then stop when married? Is that the old bait and switch?
Some even think that makeup itself is deceptive as it is in many cases a way to mimic signs of fertility beyond what one is naturally showing (more red in the lips, cheeks etc. which mimics physical signs of arousal in young and fertile females biologically. )
Some think that jewelry is flaunting wealth, or drawing attention. Others just see it as a way to customize things the way they like (and costume jewelry may be a very low cost investment).
Just trying to get different takes on the subject, and understand things from a different perspective.
This isn't just limited to ladies, but wondering how folks feel about such things as jewelry, makeup, shaving, high heels, hose, etc. Should anyone feel the need to make themselves attractive on a regular basis?
What about those who do so when dating then stop when married? Is that the old bait and switch?
Some even think that makeup itself is deceptive as it is in many cases a way to mimic signs of fertility beyond what one is naturally showing (more red in the lips, cheeks etc. which mimics physical signs of arousal in young and fertile females biologically. )
Some think that jewelry is flaunting wealth, or drawing attention. Others just see it as a way to customize things the way they like (and costume jewelry may be a very low cost investment).
Just trying to get different takes on the subject, and understand things from a different perspective.