Hello everyone,
I joined your community because I feel a bit embarrassed asking my friends for advice on this matter.
Some context which may be required: in my country, legal age of drinking soft alcoholics and going to parties is 16. My daughter (16) went to a party and I told her to be home by midnight. I went to bed at 23.00 and heard her come home a few minutes past midnight. Some time later I realised that she was not alone because I had to listen to very specific sounds...At 5 I heard him leave.
Now, this is extremely uncomfortable to me and I have so many emotions running through me. Should I tell her that I know what she did? or should I just generally restate that I dont allow other men to spend the night here? Do I punish her? Do I just ignore it?
Thank you for your help
I joined your community because I feel a bit embarrassed asking my friends for advice on this matter.
Some context which may be required: in my country, legal age of drinking soft alcoholics and going to parties is 16. My daughter (16) went to a party and I told her to be home by midnight. I went to bed at 23.00 and heard her come home a few minutes past midnight. Some time later I realised that she was not alone because I had to listen to very specific sounds...At 5 I heard him leave.
Now, this is extremely uncomfortable to me and I have so many emotions running through me. Should I tell her that I know what she did? or should I just generally restate that I dont allow other men to spend the night here? Do I punish her? Do I just ignore it?
Thank you for your help