- Jun 19, 2016
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- United Kingdom
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Single
I have many problems I have struggled with for a long time.
1. I feel very lonely. I don’t really have friends and so spend all my time alone. When I go to university I sit alone because nobody wants to work/be with me. I’m not a bad person, I just don’t really talk as I struggle socially.
2. I have lost nearly all my interests and so don’t seem to like anything anymore. God gave me a gift in mathematics and I used to enjoy mathematics but now I lost joy for it and don’t even know how to choose my modules for this semester at college since I don’t know what I like anymore. I have no idea what I want to do with my life so I’ve no idea how I’m meant to use and appreciate my talent. I also lost interest in cooking, meeting people.
3. I’m 20 yrs old now but when I was 16 I seemed to lose all my interest in women overnight. This destroyed my confidence (no exaggeration) as I no longer feel like a man anymore. I no longer feel strong attraction inside me for women that I would have previously really liked. Now I feel like an emotionless alien separate from everyone else. I feel embarrassed to be me and feel like I’ll never ever get my feelings back so that I can love a woman one day, get married and have a family. I always liked foreign women and today in college a lovely looking french girl asked to sit beside me. She is a nice looking girl who I would’ve been into before but now I feel like the connection in my brain in missing. I wish I was my former self and had the confidence to be myself. I wish I could not be shy and weird and have my attraction back so I could actually get to know this girl. Ive never had a girlfriend nor really ever had the interest to get one (mainly due to my attraction issue and my social weirdness)
I’ve battled these problems for a long time and I wish there was an end.
Another honourable mention is my chronic back pain.
I’ve had bad lower back pain for 2 years after a gym injury. I have spent a lot of money on physiotherapy to try and get better and nothing works for it. Please pray for my healing as God can heal me.
Thank you for reading this. Please though, don’t mention celibacy to me as I haven’t been called to it.
1. I feel very lonely. I don’t really have friends and so spend all my time alone. When I go to university I sit alone because nobody wants to work/be with me. I’m not a bad person, I just don’t really talk as I struggle socially.
2. I have lost nearly all my interests and so don’t seem to like anything anymore. God gave me a gift in mathematics and I used to enjoy mathematics but now I lost joy for it and don’t even know how to choose my modules for this semester at college since I don’t know what I like anymore. I have no idea what I want to do with my life so I’ve no idea how I’m meant to use and appreciate my talent. I also lost interest in cooking, meeting people.
3. I’m 20 yrs old now but when I was 16 I seemed to lose all my interest in women overnight. This destroyed my confidence (no exaggeration) as I no longer feel like a man anymore. I no longer feel strong attraction inside me for women that I would have previously really liked. Now I feel like an emotionless alien separate from everyone else. I feel embarrassed to be me and feel like I’ll never ever get my feelings back so that I can love a woman one day, get married and have a family. I always liked foreign women and today in college a lovely looking french girl asked to sit beside me. She is a nice looking girl who I would’ve been into before but now I feel like the connection in my brain in missing. I wish I was my former self and had the confidence to be myself. I wish I could not be shy and weird and have my attraction back so I could actually get to know this girl. Ive never had a girlfriend nor really ever had the interest to get one (mainly due to my attraction issue and my social weirdness)
I’ve battled these problems for a long time and I wish there was an end.
Another honourable mention is my chronic back pain.
I’ve had bad lower back pain for 2 years after a gym injury. I have spent a lot of money on physiotherapy to try and get better and nothing works for it. Please pray for my healing as God can heal me.
Thank you for reading this. Please though, don’t mention celibacy to me as I haven’t been called to it.