We somewhat recently had a new senior/lead pastor come on board and he has been doing a lot of good things. The church is growing, and there is a new energy in the air. God is using this man.
However, as with most major changes, the change itself can be hard for some.
One of our associate pastors has been, for lack of a better term "de-motivated". I believe this is partially because this associate pastor was so close to the former senior pastor. He feels like nothing is going right (even though, a lot is going right). He has confided in a few of us that he pretty much dislikes everything since the new pastor has come on board. He still does his pastoral duties and obligations and is not openly a "Debbie downer" in public. But the whole conversation came up because when dealing with other staff, there has been some indication of an issue.
So my question is this. How do we help this good man? I know he loves God. I know what it feels like to have a problem where you cannot breath. You desperately crave air, but your lungs don't work. This good man seems to be experiencing this in his spiritual life and ministry. He has a good heart, I know this. He just seems to have lost his vision. He has no aspirations for what he wants to do in the church or how he wants to grow ministries. He just exists and that is about it. I think, due to his good heart, he still helps when asked, but never more than asked.
I know several of us try encouraging and building him up. We want him to succeed and I know he appreciates the kind words and such. But I would love some advice on motivating him and his young family. This guy has some great potential to be used by God if he could take these spiritual blinders off and see what is going on around him. How do we help him?
However, as with most major changes, the change itself can be hard for some.
One of our associate pastors has been, for lack of a better term "de-motivated". I believe this is partially because this associate pastor was so close to the former senior pastor. He feels like nothing is going right (even though, a lot is going right). He has confided in a few of us that he pretty much dislikes everything since the new pastor has come on board. He still does his pastoral duties and obligations and is not openly a "Debbie downer" in public. But the whole conversation came up because when dealing with other staff, there has been some indication of an issue.
So my question is this. How do we help this good man? I know he loves God. I know what it feels like to have a problem where you cannot breath. You desperately crave air, but your lungs don't work. This good man seems to be experiencing this in his spiritual life and ministry. He has a good heart, I know this. He just seems to have lost his vision. He has no aspirations for what he wants to do in the church or how he wants to grow ministries. He just exists and that is about it. I think, due to his good heart, he still helps when asked, but never more than asked.
I know several of us try encouraging and building him up. We want him to succeed and I know he appreciates the kind words and such. But I would love some advice on motivating him and his young family. This guy has some great potential to be used by God if he could take these spiritual blinders off and see what is going on around him. How do we help him?