How to deal with a person with Personality Disorders

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I am writing because I work with someone who seems to have a personality disorder. She is nice only when she wants something. The rest of the time she is down right mean in her dealings with me and others. She calls me names and she is very aggressive toward me. I never remember offending her. I have given her plants, clothes, and a variety of other things. I am coming up on my 5 year anniversary at work and I believe she is trying to get me to quit. I have seen her exhibit this behavior toward other people.

Borderlines, can be extremely manipulative. When they want something, they can present themselves one way and they can charm the pants off of people, when they need to.

Read the book "walking on egg shells". Excellent source to learn how to deal with borderlines.