Alithis
Disciple of Jesus .
- Nov 11, 2010
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The Bible also says that you can divorce your husband due to his adultery and atheism. Scripture that says do not be unequally yoked pertains to the Christian who is in a marriage with an unbeliever.
Your husband is telling you his sins are your fault!
You could wear a Burka, walk three paces behind your husband, never look him in the eyes, and never disagree with a thing he says so as to demonstrate submissiveness, and you'll never be good enough for him to be man enough to live up to his vows that he took with you.
Now, you have to be selfish!
Because God trusted you with three children! Who's care and upbringing you are not only responsible for but shall answer to God for at the day of judgment.
Your husband isn't changing from his old ways. He's washed in his sins and he's using you as his excuse to enjoy the submersion.
And while you're wasting your time with someone who doesn't respect you or your children, the man God has picked out for you is going to pass on by unnoticed. Because he is everything you wish your husband would be. And he would never look at a married woman with kids.
When you're making that list in your head that says you'd be happy if your husband just did this and that, you're telling yourself that that man you wish he'd become is the man you deserve! And that list you're writing up is point by point proof that man isn't in him!
If you do what you've always done you'll get what you've always gotten.
You owe it to yourself and your children to depart from the sinner and seek the righteous way. Because you are their role model. And so too is he.
And how you act toward him, how he treats you, is what they learn to be.
If you wouldn't wish your relationship troubles on anyone, then don't teach them to your children.
His attitude is you're not worth staying faithful to.
You're worth dying from the STD's his whoremongering actions risk bringing home to you.
You're worth dying from the diseases he can get as a drug addict.
You're worth being treated horribly by him by his choice! And the whole time he says its your fault he does that to you.
The only way he can do that to you is if you're there for him to continue doing it.
He doesn't think you're worth more than the way he treats you now. And he calls that your fault!
He doesn't love you. As an adulterer and a drug addict he doesn't love himself. How can he love you? He loves his sin...until death does he part.
And as a drug addict and a whoremonger, in the age of HIV AIDS, death is not impossible.
The thing is, do you want him to take you with him? Then your children are orphaned. Because daddy didn't think more of mom and the kids. And mom agreed with daddy that it was all her fault.
If it were me, he'd have been gone yesterday. God didn't make you in his image and likeness so that you could be abused after taking a sacred oath at an altar where it wasn't asked of you.
this is contrary to all the lord JESUS taught us it promotes no faith nor forgiveness Nor love , nor hope of reconciliation , nor does it show any desire for the salvation of her husbands soul which Jesus desires so much that he laid down his life for that husband .
shall we cast off every one who offends us ? shall we demote every one who does us wrong and treat them as filth by throwing them away ?
shameful worldly council is what that would be .
suffice to say .. i am so glad the Lord Jesus did not treat me this way when i was in error against him .
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