I'm 18, and have been masturbating since puberty at about 12.
I grew up in a Charismatic home, but joined a reformed Church after hearing the true gospel at the age of 17.
I believe that I am a Christian, and that I have been growing in hatred of sin and in love of God. And that he who started a good work in me will complete it.
Throughout my teenage life, masturbation has been a stumbling block for me.
I believe it to be a sin, especially when lustful fantasizing is involved.
And I feel that it is a lack of self-control and a form of incontinence (2 Timothy 3:3).
The only reference I can find in old testament law with regard to the act of masturbation is on ceremonial uncleanliness from seminal emissions. (I forgot the verse)
My habitual masturbation frustrates and discourages me. I keep falling into lust and sin though I try to repent and turn away from it. And there are many times when I neglect prayer or the study of the word, because I feel ashamed of my sin and am at lost on what to do.
I don't know how to control the lusts and passions of my youth, and every day, for most of the day I face temptations at school or at the computer.
I want to keep my body and mind pure, but every few days I fail miserably.
I don't know many older Christian men who I can go to for advice on male sexuality. (And I definitely would not ask other teenagers.)
I need advice on how to exercise self-control over my body and sexuality as a young man.
I grew up in a Charismatic home, but joined a reformed Church after hearing the true gospel at the age of 17.
I believe that I am a Christian, and that I have been growing in hatred of sin and in love of God. And that he who started a good work in me will complete it.
Throughout my teenage life, masturbation has been a stumbling block for me.
I believe it to be a sin, especially when lustful fantasizing is involved.
And I feel that it is a lack of self-control and a form of incontinence (2 Timothy 3:3).
The only reference I can find in old testament law with regard to the act of masturbation is on ceremonial uncleanliness from seminal emissions. (I forgot the verse)
My habitual masturbation frustrates and discourages me. I keep falling into lust and sin though I try to repent and turn away from it. And there are many times when I neglect prayer or the study of the word, because I feel ashamed of my sin and am at lost on what to do.
I don't know how to control the lusts and passions of my youth, and every day, for most of the day I face temptations at school or at the computer.
I want to keep my body and mind pure, but every few days I fail miserably.
I don't know many older Christian men who I can go to for advice on male sexuality. (And I definitely would not ask other teenagers.)
I need advice on how to exercise self-control over my body and sexuality as a young man.