You have to ask WHY it's pretty unfair to say to someone in those circumstances to "take care of themselves"?
SBC said:
You think you are the exception, to have hardships or know people with hardships?
You are not unique, nor are they. I don't have to tell anyone anything about their own hardships. I've had plenty and never thought YOU or anyone else should be burdened with MY hardships, because it is just as easy to say I CAN, as saying I can't.
Greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world. There is no can't if you trust God.
No.....I don't believe I'm unique in knowing (and recognizing) those with circumstances that I wrote about. That's exactly why I feel strongly about it (because it's not RARE)....and spiritualizing it doesn't really help. The circumstances I gave were a bit more than just "hardships", however.
The Body of Christ has a function. We are His hands and feet...His active participants.
This man--below-- had "hardship" as well.....but Jesus didn't seem to believe he was supposed to "take care of himself":
>>>Behold, a certain lawyer stood up and tested him, saying, "Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?"
He said to him, "What is written in the law? How do you read it?"
He answered, "You shall
love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, with all your mind, [
Deuteronomy 6:5];
and your neighbour as yourself [
Leviticus 19:18]."
He said to him, "You have answered correctly. Do this, and you will live."
But he, desiring to justify himself, asked Jesus, "
Who is my neighbour?"
— Luke 10:25–29,
World English Bible
Jesus replies with a story:
Jesus answered, "A certain man was going down from
Jerusalem to
Jericho, and he fell among robbers, who both stripped him and beat him, and departed, leaving him half dead. By chance
a certain priest was going down that way. When he saw him, he
passed by on the other side. In the same way
a Levite also, when he came to the place, and saw him,
passed by on the other side. But
a certain Samaritan, as he traveled, came where he was. When he saw him, he
was moved with compassion, came to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. He set him on his own animal, and brought him to an inn, and took care of him. On the next day, when he departed, he took out two
denarii, and gave them to the host, and said to him, 'Take care of him. Whatever you spend beyond that, I will repay you when I return.'
Now which of these three do you think seemed to be a neighbour to him who fell among the robbers?"
He said, "He who showed mercy on him."
Then Jesus said to him, "Go and do likewise."
— Luke 10:30–37,
World English Bible
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Jesus simplified and summed up the entire law into two lines.....yet it's still a struggle for people to figure out this whole "Christianity" thing (speaking in a general sense).
Asserting ideas like everyone needing to care for their own selves is just like passing by on the other side.