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@Hazelelponi I mean, some women wear head coverings during the service at the church.
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Wow. the one on the left looks like an Orthodox or Conservative Jewish woman lighting candles for Sabbath or Yom Tov.some women wear head coverings during the service at the church.
VERY well said!!!!My take on it is that we're supposed to focus more on doing good than looking good.
You shouldn't. No one should bear responsibility for another's sin...unless that person intentionally draws them into it. Simply dressing in a way that someone else finds attractive and decides to have lustful thoughts regarding does not qualify. However, if that person intentionally dresses or acts a certain way for the purposes of eliciting that reaction, then morally they share blame. For example (and I'll use women here, although the same applies to men):I feel stressed out. like I have to bear responsibility for mens lust
You shouldn't. No one should bear responsibility for another's sin...unless that person intentionally draws them into it. Simply dressing in a way that someone else finds attractive and decides to have lustful thoughts regarding does not qualify. However, if that person intentionally dresses or acts a certain way for the purposes of eliciting that reaction, then morally they share blame. For example (and I'll use women here, although the same applies to men):
Two women, both in identical bikinis, one is at the beach with her friends, the other is waiting on tables at a sports bar. Which one of the two do you think chose her attire to provoke lustful reactions from the opposite sex. While it's possible the first one did (although there is nothing to suggest that), it's almost certain the second did.
Absolutely. If I choose a job that requires me to sin, am I not responsible for the sin I commit in the course of that job?The second woman probably didn't have a choice of attire though since her employer probably chose it for her and if she refused to wear it, she wouldn't have the job. So while she might share moral blame for taking such a job in the first place, would she really share moral blame specifically for the choice of clothing in this case?
Absolutely. If I choose a job that requires me to sin, am I not responsible for the sin I commit in the course of that job?
What is the purpose of having waitresses wear bikinis in a sports bar? Safe bet is it's not to save money on running the air conditioning.But what sin is she committing providing that she's solely serving her customers food and drink and nothing else on the side? If she's just there for the paycheck like any other job and is just wearing the uniform that is provided to her? (I'm pushing back a bit because I think this situation may be a bit different than someone who intentionally chooses provocative clothing for the *purpose* of going out on the town and seducing people.)
We can always find ways to justify our sin if we look hard enough.Would it make a difference if she was just doing the job for fun, for some extra spending money vs. it being the only job available for her in an economically devastated town and she has a couple of children to feed?
What is the purpose of having waitresses wear bikinis in a sports bar? Safe bet is it's not to save money on running the air conditioning.
We can always find ways to justify our sin if we look hard enough.
LOL!!!!What is the purpose of having waitresses wear bikinis in a sports bar? Safe bet is it's not to save money on running the air conditioning.
Let's stay with the hypothetical example I gave to which you are responding. If someone takes a job that requires them to dress a certain way for the purpose of eliciting lustful (sinful) response in others, then they are responsible for the sin they commit by provoking sin in others.Isn't that a cop-out sort of response though?There are many reasons why a woman might be working in a sports bar and oftentimes not for the purpose of provoking lust. That might be the *employer's* reason, but not hers.
Let's stay with the hypothetical example I gave to which you are responding. If someone takes a job that requires them to dress a certain way for the purpose of eliciting lustful (sinful) response in others, then they are responsible for the sin they commit by provoking sin in others.
Of course not, nor did I ever say it did.
You shouldn't. No one should bear responsibility for another's sin...unless that person intentionally draws them into it. Simply dressing in a way that someone else finds attractive and decides to have lustful thoughts regarding does not qualify. However, if that person intentionally dresses or acts a certain way for the purposes of eliciting that reaction, then morally they share blame.
Well, I can’t help it if you want to read more into it than what was posted.
@Hazelelponi I mean, some women wear head coverings during the service at the church.
Isn't it interesting that a woman covers her head to show respect, but a man takes off his hat?