Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, yet you Jews say that the place to worship is in Jerusalem.”
Jesus told her, “Believe Me, woman, an hour is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem.
You Samaritans worship what you do not know. We worship what we do know, because salvation is from the Jews.
But an hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth. Yes, the Father wants such people to worship Him.
God is spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.” -John 4:20-24
This is one of my favorite interchanges in the Bible. The woman is essentially asking which tradition is correct. Samaria had started off Jewish, but quickly established its own worship centers rather than travelling to Jerusalem. It went downhill from there, but still the Samaritans clung to their tradition.
Look carefully at Jesus' answer. He doesn't say Jerusalem is the correct place to worship. He doesn't even say that either place would be an acceptable place to worship. Instead, He says the improbable - that NEITHER place will be suitable for worship. In one breath He offends both Jews and Samaritans, and any traditionalist who might follow in their footsteps. He does this to make a point - a new kind of worship is coming, one that is not dependent on time or place or protocol. It is dependent only on spirit and truth, and it is available to all at any time or place. You can worship in church, you can worship while you're cleaning toilets. Worship is now a matter of the heart that has been circumcised by the love of God in Christ Jesus.
But still we cling to our traditions. I have seen charismatic churches no less liturgical than the high church. There is a certain time to be prayed for, a time to be slain in the spirit, etc. So I'm not singling out one group or the other. It is the human condition that we like religious strictures around us. But that is not what Jesus is saying here.