If the Lord is the one telling you to stay put, you won't be able to leave.
Stay sensitive to the Lord.
He doesn't pull away the carrot, the devil does.
If your girl isn't talking to you, that could mean the devil is working on her too, but GOD is bigger.
Someone needs to double up in prayer and the Word of God. It might as well be you.
Ask the Lord what to do about your girl not talking to you.
He has answers and provisions. Hang in there. Keep pressing in with the Lord. He'll help you overcome the tricks the devil is playing.
The Lord speaks to our hearts and minds and spirits. We need to stay in prayer, scripture, praise, etc to stay encouraged.
If you think you've made a mistake, ask the Lord if you did and wait for His answer.
This is the time of your life to learn how to hear the Lord and overcome the tricks of the devil.
If you've made a mistake somewhere, the Lord will help you with that too.
It's all a learning process my brother. Be patient. Keep trusting the Lord. Don't let any temporary set backs throw you. With the Lord, all setbacks are temporary.
Stay with the Lord and learn from Him how to walk through this adventure. Don't lose faith brother. God is your provider, protector, teacher, redeemer, etc.
Jeremiah 29:11 is the truth my brother.