I've always been curious about this. What do you call your IL's?
My mom always called my grandmother (her MIL) by her first name, and same with my Dad (calling his MIL by her first name).
It wasn't until I married my DH that I noticed my SIL calls her MIL "Mom". So she'll answer the phone "Hi Mom!" even though it's her husbands mom. I donno it just seems a bit off to me.
I call my MIL by her first name and I've often wondered if she would want me to call her Mom? I couldn't bring myself to it. She isn't my Mom, could never replace my Mom and certainly dosen't act as Motherly as my Mom does. But because my husband is the only boy, I'm her only daughter in law so I don't have other married into the family females to compare myself to. Non of the sons in law (3 of them) call her Mom, but I'm wondering if a daughter in law is different?
My mom always called my grandmother (her MIL) by her first name, and same with my Dad (calling his MIL by her first name).
It wasn't until I married my DH that I noticed my SIL calls her MIL "Mom". So she'll answer the phone "Hi Mom!" even though it's her husbands mom. I donno it just seems a bit off to me.
I call my MIL by her first name and I've often wondered if she would want me to call her Mom? I couldn't bring myself to it. She isn't my Mom, could never replace my Mom and certainly dosen't act as Motherly as my Mom does. But because my husband is the only boy, I'm her only daughter in law so I don't have other married into the family females to compare myself to. Non of the sons in law (3 of them) call her Mom, but I'm wondering if a daughter in law is different?