Yes I was a SAHM for years...and once I had my oldest child, my husband's job was always much more lucrative than any of my endeavors (mostly involving writing and music).
And I think that to an extent I found my self-esteem running organizations and being super-volunteer. I think this can happen with SAHD's, too, or Dads whose wives earn much more than they do.
I knew one SAHD who had a big garden, renovated his house, baked his own pies, and budgeted down to pennies. He made the rest of us feel so insecure....
So just throwing out the question: Are many SAHM's and SAHD's (or secondary-income moms and dads) trying to find their identities in unpaid work--in church, in children's activities, and even online?
And I think that to an extent I found my self-esteem running organizations and being super-volunteer. I think this can happen with SAHD's, too, or Dads whose wives earn much more than they do.
I knew one SAHD who had a big garden, renovated his house, baked his own pies, and budgeted down to pennies. He made the rest of us feel so insecure....
So just throwing out the question: Are many SAHM's and SAHD's (or secondary-income moms and dads) trying to find their identities in unpaid work--in church, in children's activities, and even online?