Hello,
I have a friend who is now feeling lonely. He was just rejected by a girl. He is about 9 years older than her. He thought that she may like him through the little hints. But he misinterpreted. So when he confronted her that he liked her, he is rejected immediately. They are friends for almost a year. Now they seem to be like strangers.
Adding to this, he is now feeling that all hope for him to get marry is gone. He is getting close to his 30th birthday. And he is a nice guy, but is too shy that was never able to make moves on girl in his younger years. So with this move, it just takes away apart of his courage. He feels that God may never bring him a godly woman. And I can see that he does loose that joy in him that I used to see.
I know that he wants to find a godly woman. And just as he had told me, he wants to encounter a relationship and fall in love. He believes that dream may just be a dream.
I know that God works in miracles in bringing a man and a woman together. How do I comfort such a man who is hurt? I believe that he is hurt since his teen age. These hurts arise in situations like this. How can I comfort him? I do not have the mind of a woman, so I really do not know how to tell him how woman appreciate such a man he is? Please help me.
I have a friend who is now feeling lonely. He was just rejected by a girl. He is about 9 years older than her. He thought that she may like him through the little hints. But he misinterpreted. So when he confronted her that he liked her, he is rejected immediately. They are friends for almost a year. Now they seem to be like strangers.
Adding to this, he is now feeling that all hope for him to get marry is gone. He is getting close to his 30th birthday. And he is a nice guy, but is too shy that was never able to make moves on girl in his younger years. So with this move, it just takes away apart of his courage. He feels that God may never bring him a godly woman. And I can see that he does loose that joy in him that I used to see.
I know that he wants to find a godly woman. And just as he had told me, he wants to encounter a relationship and fall in love. He believes that dream may just be a dream.
I know that God works in miracles in bringing a man and a woman together. How do I comfort such a man who is hurt? I believe that he is hurt since his teen age. These hurts arise in situations like this. How can I comfort him? I do not have the mind of a woman, so I really do not know how to tell him how woman appreciate such a man he is? Please help me.