Having been Orthodox, I can see both sides of what
@Paidiske and
@Anastasia are talking about. It comes down to the fact that to be Orthodox is to forgo alot of the assumptions about authority and power than an heir to western European Protestantism would take for granted.
I get so frustrated when people talk like this, as if women who want to be ordained, or people who push for women's ordination, are just grasping at power and control freaks out to dominate others.
That's not what it is. That's never been what it is. (I mean, there are some women who apply who are like that, but then, there are some men who apply who are like that, and generally the process weeds them out as unsuitable).
The power of the clergy is not the reason for seeking ordination. And I realise that that power might be informal or exercised in diffuse ways (a lot of mine is). But denying that power when it is real is dangerous.
Going out on a limb, I predict that the RCC will have a married male priesthood within a decade or two and female clergy within a century. Orthodoxy will take a bit longer.
For the RCC, women in the diaconate -
maybe. For priests I would say it would take longer.
I always heard women complaining about submission and authority and roles when I was a Protestant. Within Orthodoxy, I don't hear it.
But we are strongly aware of authority. The authority of Christ. I think men and women are both continually reminded of our humility before God, such that any grasping for authority over others (regardless of which sex/es are involved) is a pretty strong indicator of a problem to us.
My impression is certainly that Orthodoxy doesn't have the problems that fundamentalism has, of treating women as doormats, who need to submit to abuse etc etc. If I gave that impression, it was totally not what I meant, and I'm sorry.
And I struggle with this because this is not, for me, about authority
over others. It's about the ability to each use our gifts and live out our vocations to the full. It's about participatory decision making that truly listens to the voices of all and takes even the most vulnerable person into account. That's what I want the Church to make possible for all my sisters and brothers; and what I see the Church - in all its different institutional bodies and denominations, including my own - failing at in various ways. Clericalism is a big part of that, and thus my concern for the intersection of ordination and leadership.